Birthday Gift

[phil2015]

Hi

Just a quick one guys, I've been seeing a girl for are under 2 weeks and its her Birthday tomorrow.

I'm seeing her tonight, and considering taking a little present/card for her to wake up with.

Im aware that spontaneous gifts are a no, no and interest level killer so I'm unsure how to approach this really.

I have 2 ideas/options in mind;

A) A simple card - nothing sloppy, more jokey and a bar of nice chocolate to go with it

B) A nice pendant/necklace I've had upstairs for a while, along with the Choc and card

Really don't wanna overdo it, but also don't wanna look like a tight was.

Any advice all appreciated.....

Regards

Phil

 

[phil2015]

She's 31

Seems nice, would initially appear to be loyal and have no orbiters, looks after me and fvcks on demand

Still only 2 weeks in so could be on her best behaviour

 

[Igetit!]

Hi

Just a quick one guys, I've been seeing a girl for are under 2 weeks and its her Birthday tomorrow.

I'm seeing her tonight, and considering taking a little present/card for her to wake up with.

Ok,question here...............

You say that you're seeing her tonight,and that you're considering taking her some kind of card or present to "WAKE UP WITH".

Ok,so.....so does that mean you plan on spending the night with this chick?

Just curious.

Im aware that spontaneous gifts are a no, no and interest level killer so I'm unsure how to approach this really.

This is true,sir.

I have 2 ideas/options in mind;

A) A simple card - nothing sloppy, more jokey and a bar of nice chocolate to go with it

B) A nice pendant/necklace I've had upstairs for a while, along with the Choc and card

I'm just gonna go head and be straight up honest with you....

Honestly,I wouldn't do EITHER ONE. There's a reason why.....


I personally think the only chicks guys should buy gifts for are their WIVES and GIRLFRIENDS,(aside from female relatives) and that's it. I know you mean well and have good intentions,but you know how chicks are.....they have a tendency to MISINTERPET kind gestures from a guy.


You buy her a gift,(especially that pendent/necklace idea),and she'll likely think you want a relationship with her.......after LESS THAN 2 weeks of dating. She'll think you're moving too fast,want too much too soon.

Then another few days later,after she's started acting strange,flaking on dates,and seeming distant for no apparent reason,you'll get the good ole' "I need space" line from her....which is the beginning of the end.


And this will all be because of the kind gesture you had,of getting her something for her birthday.

Really don't wanna overdo it, but also don't wanna look like a tight was.

I hear you. This is what I would do.....

I wouldn't buy her anything. I'd just simply ask her what she's got planned for her "big" day. Thing is,it's possible HER FAMILY already has something planned,or maybe her girlfriends already have plans to take her somewhere.


If she doesn't already have something planned,I STILL WOULDN'T buy her anything,but I'd TELL HER I'm taking her out somewhere for her birthday,maybe to a nice dinner. I might even make an exception for buying her a card if you two had been seeing each other for a month or two,but less than 2 weeks? Naw,man. She'll likely think you want too much too soon,and start to freak out.

 

[backbeat]

no man don't get her nothin jus say happy birthday to her an that is it. 2 weeks is nothih man she dont need no pendant for no 2 weeks.

 

[El Suave]

Get her a card and nothing more. Don't listen to these guys that say to forget about her birthday. A freaking card costs $5 and shows you have a proper upbringing.

 

[bigneil]

Too early for a gift, and IMO a card will put you in the stalker category. You might give her a high quality $3 chocolate bar (go with 70% dark because its a health food and aphrodisiac), wrapped. Do remember and say happy birthday, and if she happens to be lonely, take her to dinner and treat.

 

[Soolaimon]

Presents and cards are reserved for girlfriends only.

Not for a girl you just barely even know for 2 weeks.

If she has no plans for her birthday go out for a fun action date.

It's something that you can both have fun doing together that she will enjoy for her birthday.

Enjoy the Birthday sex after that.

 

[mangotot]

A cheap card and nothing more. For crying out loud, you've only known her 2 weeks.

 

[Fireballs]

Don't get her anything.

 

[VladPatton]

You barely know her, so take her out for a nice dinner. Nothing too expensive. Go home, bang. Done deal.