KillingTime
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Bad timing, I've just entered into a relationship and right around the corner is her b-day.
Now while I'm not a big fan of buying people things on a regular basis, I usually do like to give nice gifts at b-days and x-mas HOWEVER, by b-day time we've technically only been together about two weeks (even though we've known we'd end up together for several months before)
What's the right thing to do here? I feel a bit odd getting her a large gift when we've only been together a few weeks (even though this is definatlely working out to be a serious relatioship) but I also feel odd NOT getting her a large gift since we ARE together.
I was thinking of just getting her a bunch of smaller things with meaning behind them, inside jokes we have etc., some flowers she likes, a sex toy haha just things like that but at the same time it might look a little odd if guy friends are getting her more expensive things than her boyfriend.
What's the rule of thumb here?
Now while I'm not a big fan of buying people things on a regular basis, I usually do like to give nice gifts at b-days and x-mas HOWEVER, by b-day time we've technically only been together about two weeks (even though we've known we'd end up together for several months before)
What's the right thing to do here? I feel a bit odd getting her a large gift when we've only been together a few weeks (even though this is definatlely working out to be a serious relatioship) but I also feel odd NOT getting her a large gift since we ARE together.
I was thinking of just getting her a bunch of smaller things with meaning behind them, inside jokes we have etc., some flowers she likes, a sex toy haha just things like that but at the same time it might look a little odd if guy friends are getting her more expensive things than her boyfriend.
What's the rule of thumb here?