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Birthday.. eX-girl.. need advice by tomorrow

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OK, here it is (bit of background) my X who broke up wid me yesterday, obviosly as all girls want to, wants to continue being friends. I dint want to seem like a jerk so i woz like yeah sure as we were best mates before we went out. Any way...

Tomorrows my birthday and originaly we was gona go cinema see sumit and just chill and stuff, were not goin cinema any more but shes still coming round for a bit tomorrow to chill and give me my present..

I have an extremly strong feeling that she still fancies me although she broke up wid me coz we wernt 'working out' (that aint really important). What i want to no is should i make a move on her tomorrow if things are going well??

Is this a bad idea if i get rejected as i still really care 4 her in that way? but then again i dont see what ive got to lose?!?!
(dont worry about it if your thinking suck it up anyone, ino shes the one missing out and i intend to show her that regardless of making a move or not)
 

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I'd say no, jsut let it go and look for greener pastures.

She broke up with you for a reason.

But if you are getting such undeniable vibes that you can't resist, just go for it. But be aware of the consequences if you do.
 
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But be aware of the consequences if you do. [/B]
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Just to clarify what are the possible consequences?
 
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I'd say let her go. Don't send out any signals. Even if she is still interested in you.
Go for another chick, so she sees what shes missing out on. That way you show 3 things:

1. Your a ladies man, your off the leash, now you can have whoever you want.
2. She shouldn't have broken up with you because you know how to make a woman happen.
3. Your not a loser, you quickly move on. Shes not worth your time.
4. She made a BIG mistake breaking up with you

If you go back to her then this shows her that she still has you wrapped around her finger. Now she can go gossip to her friends about how "he still wants me :D".

Still talk to her, don't ignore her. But show her that your having more fun talking to others. This will also make her miss the fun she used to have when around you.
Best of luck man, and whatever happens don't let this chick ruin your party. :cool:
 
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