"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Birth of a PUA

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Hey fellow PUAs,

I'm first going to give you some background info on myself and then lay out my plans for the coming months, as to becoming a PUA.

Background:
I live in London, England, and I'm 21 years old.
I have to admit my experience in the game is pretty much non-existant.
I have only had one girlfriend, and she approached me, so I learnt nothing from it in terms of picking up girls.
It's been a year since I was in a r/ship and now I truly plan on doing something about this dry spell.
I have looked over certain theories and now need to put some of it into practice.

Plan 1:
I am going out tonight to a number of clubs to approach many women, whether by themself or in groups.
I have 2 openers in my head, and I'm just going to see how they go.
I have no intention of actually getting any of these women tonight, but I do want to be congruent with my approaches and just open as many sets as possible.

Okay Guys, I will be coming back 2moro with feedback...

"LET THE GAMES BEGIN!!!!"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smooth Player 056

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Yeah, nobody here is a PUA....except for a select few.

JC is right on this one.....your in the wrong forum


~Smooth
 

Electro

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Hey there DavoodR, don't let any of this bother you. I'm new at this all too, though perhaps in a worse state, heh.

DJ. PUA. AFC. Right now all they are are letters to us, to someone who isn't a doctor, a PhD is just that same. Letters after the name. Its up to us to figure out what kind of person we want to be. If we get a little experience and consider ourselves pick up artists, calling yourself a DJ won't be any different. It just means you'll be more accepted in this forum. Call yourself what you will. All of these abreviations are manufactured anyways. Someone came up with the idea right?
Hell! If you wanted, you could call yourself a PME. Pimp Master Extraorinaire.
Find confidence in yourself, live life how you want and don't let anyone tell you what you are or are not or can and cant be.

Electro.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Electro

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The Game was the catalyst for my own lifestyle change, if its the same for DavoodR then fair play to him. You have to understand that books like Style's are hard to come by. It's probably the first of it's kind to be commercially filtered into the UK, or at least I've never heard of others. Looking on the internet is something a lot of us wouldn't usually think of.

I'm thankful for The Game and what I've read ot it so far.
It's being used as it was intended for, to help losers such as myself find the confidence they need to better themselves. Sure the book is about picking up women, but it was never mean't as step by step instructions. It's someone elses experiences to offer ideas to the reader.

The Game is to everyday Joe's, as Sun Tsu's The Art of War is to Business interns.
Inspirational reading to those who are searching.

Electro.
 

DavoodR

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Hey thanks electro,

I think people misunderstood what i meant, when i say "pua" i mean the kind of person who can talk to people with confidence and charm. iv had a lot practice chattin to guys, but its the opposite sex i had probs wid. im looking at this area of my life to add to being able to handle myself in social situations.

As for being inspired by the game, i did find sum inspiration from it, but i was lookin at david ds stuff and ross j material for the past 3 years.

i didnt mean to offend ne1 by using the term pua rather than dj, cos at the end of the day i only plan on being the best person i can be. u all seem like great guys, and as long as we have a place to share ideas and give eachother feedback, im happy.
 

Marlimus

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Whatever path you take, just remember one thing: Inner Game above all else. Keep your mind tight, and remember you are the prize.
 
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