jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi friends,
We know how women behave.
I can summarize some key behaviors here in a quick list:
- FOMO: when they miss something, whether it's something missing in their life, like seeing their friend on a trip, or in a new dress, or a new car, etc. (they want what other women want).
- Jealousy, Envy, and Lust: when they see other women looking at, talking to, or mentioning their boyfriend, or when they see him acquire attributes they know other women "want" to see... Enhancement, wealth, status, or other elements of self-worth...
(I've only described a few, and I've tried to keep it brief, you may mention others)
The sosuave forum pushes men to improve themselves, to study, and to fail "socially" to understand these things firsthand. It all makes sense, guys.
Now put yourself in the shoes of women... Who say, "How do I attract a worthy man and keep it for a LTR?"
Then they'll reason the same thing.
They'll make a list of things men like, or rather, things men "respond" to:
- Having a nice body, a nice ass, nice tits, good hygiene. She knows this drives men crazy.
- Treating him well, cooking for him, being feminine, not flirting with other men.
- But at the same time, she should behave ambiguously; she shouldn't give you the security that she's yours alone. But if she manages to instill in you a sense of insecurity, uncertainty, that she "could cheat," then she increases in value in your eyes, and she'll make you work for it.
- Test: She doesn't respond right away, she's playing hard to get, because she knows this will make you think she has more power, or she goesssips to her friends or your family about how the relationship is going badly, or you don't do somethings, to see if you're putting in more effort, and therefore to understand if she has more power than you.
(I've only described a few, and I've tried to keep it brief, you may mention others)
Ask yourself: who would ever seek out a woman who makes him feel insecure, by being seen subtly flirting with other men (although many here say it's simply nature/humanity), by testing him, or by not treating him well?
We're human beings; why would a healthy woman ever seek out a man who compromises her nervous system? She doesn't.
The only women who will seek out that ****tail of mental emotions are the damaged ones.
The healthy woman had a good dad, and she observed Mom and Dad's relationship, which was fine (with some arguments), but ultimately, their style was safe. The woman who "responds" to negative things isn't healthy. She responds because He saw Dad and Mommy having those issues everyday.. and boom.. she's magically attracted to you, not because you're attractive, not because you're a Sosuaver, but because She remembers those neglects, and hot and cold behaviors, which triggered her emotions before, and now too. Sure, she might be great for sex, but a relationship it's a job with her.
Just like seduction... relentless work, guys.
Why shouldn't this be true?
Each of us will find someone who will be the right piece of the puzzle to calm our nervous system and our soul, and by that, I'm telling you, the drug addict will find it in the borderline girl, while a healthy man will find it in a healthy woman.
So if I told you that every man is destined to have certain women attracted to him, these will be specifically attracted by the way he behaves, and by the psychological style that is intertwined with her.
Healthy women have never chosen a toxic man, but have had experiences with him, and their brains have been ruined forever.
Healthy women who have had healthy men in their relationships are those lucky couples who call themselves soul mates.
That's why there are very different people and relationships out there.
I have examples among friends, but maybe 1 in 10? or out of 20, better that way.
This is because I would like to tell our seducing friends, that focusing on seduction is never all you want if you are looking for more things in your life.
Your SMV always varies based on the person in front of you (beauty it's in the eye of the beholder), which is why, as men, we have a duty to develop skills and healthy behavior.
No amount of wealth or persuasion will ever bring you the same contentment that comes from having become a better, crystal clear person.
And if others don't appreciate you, you will always find those few who will.
I say this, because nowadays, everyone is living in a fiction
We know how women behave.
I can summarize some key behaviors here in a quick list:
- FOMO: when they miss something, whether it's something missing in their life, like seeing their friend on a trip, or in a new dress, or a new car, etc. (they want what other women want).
- Jealousy, Envy, and Lust: when they see other women looking at, talking to, or mentioning their boyfriend, or when they see him acquire attributes they know other women "want" to see... Enhancement, wealth, status, or other elements of self-worth...
(I've only described a few, and I've tried to keep it brief, you may mention others)
The sosuave forum pushes men to improve themselves, to study, and to fail "socially" to understand these things firsthand. It all makes sense, guys.
Now put yourself in the shoes of women... Who say, "How do I attract a worthy man and keep it for a LTR?"
Then they'll reason the same thing.
They'll make a list of things men like, or rather, things men "respond" to:
- Having a nice body, a nice ass, nice tits, good hygiene. She knows this drives men crazy.
- Treating him well, cooking for him, being feminine, not flirting with other men.
- But at the same time, she should behave ambiguously; she shouldn't give you the security that she's yours alone. But if she manages to instill in you a sense of insecurity, uncertainty, that she "could cheat," then she increases in value in your eyes, and she'll make you work for it.
- Test: She doesn't respond right away, she's playing hard to get, because she knows this will make you think she has more power, or she goesssips to her friends or your family about how the relationship is going badly, or you don't do somethings, to see if you're putting in more effort, and therefore to understand if she has more power than you.
(I've only described a few, and I've tried to keep it brief, you may mention others)
Ask yourself: who would ever seek out a woman who makes him feel insecure, by being seen subtly flirting with other men (although many here say it's simply nature/humanity), by testing him, or by not treating him well?
We're human beings; why would a healthy woman ever seek out a man who compromises her nervous system? She doesn't.
The only women who will seek out that ****tail of mental emotions are the damaged ones.
The healthy woman had a good dad, and she observed Mom and Dad's relationship, which was fine (with some arguments), but ultimately, their style was safe. The woman who "responds" to negative things isn't healthy. She responds because He saw Dad and Mommy having those issues everyday.. and boom.. she's magically attracted to you, not because you're attractive, not because you're a Sosuaver, but because She remembers those neglects, and hot and cold behaviors, which triggered her emotions before, and now too. Sure, she might be great for sex, but a relationship it's a job with her.
Just like seduction... relentless work, guys.
Why shouldn't this be true?
Each of us will find someone who will be the right piece of the puzzle to calm our nervous system and our soul, and by that, I'm telling you, the drug addict will find it in the borderline girl, while a healthy man will find it in a healthy woman.
So if I told you that every man is destined to have certain women attracted to him, these will be specifically attracted by the way he behaves, and by the psychological style that is intertwined with her.
Healthy women have never chosen a toxic man, but have had experiences with him, and their brains have been ruined forever.
Healthy women who have had healthy men in their relationships are those lucky couples who call themselves soul mates.
That's why there are very different people and relationships out there.
I have examples among friends, but maybe 1 in 10? or out of 20, better that way.
This is because I would like to tell our seducing friends, that focusing on seduction is never all you want if you are looking for more things in your life.
Your SMV always varies based on the person in front of you (beauty it's in the eye of the beholder), which is why, as men, we have a duty to develop skills and healthy behavior.
No amount of wealth or persuasion will ever bring you the same contentment that comes from having become a better, crystal clear person.
And if others don't appreciate you, you will always find those few who will.
I say this, because nowadays, everyone is living in a fiction
they focus on seduction, but ultimately become loyal boyfriends and fathers. It is what it is...