"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bipersonal relationships that sour...

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flippinfreak

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Look, we all have friends, some we call good friends, some we call ex-friends, some we call "just friends", than there are others. The ones that you cannot put into a category without being wrong.

Just wondering what all of you feel about having BAD friendships.

Yes, guys who take advantage of your STILL AFC tendencies are bad friends(I want examples so all of sosuave can get an idea of what is AFC when NOT dealing with women)

Yes, women who you see from time to time, but are your gateway to social proof, BUT NEVER let you appear to have the upper hand are bad friends
(An example: Sitting at a table with friends and she charms her way in, and you turn into a *cute* guy)

There are more... anybody?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. Blowing up over mundane bullshiit.
2. Using you to look good.
3. Trying to keep you and eat her cake too.
4. YOU losing any control over the relationship (see pt 3)
 
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Ditch them all dude, burn the bridges and don't feel bad. If they call you, they only do it cause they're lonely not because they like you.
 
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