"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bingo's Guide To Tindering Women

Bingo-Player

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Ive been experimenting for a while saying sh1t to girls on tinder seeing what i can get away with and what i cant the results are weird

First off INTRODUCTIONS ive discovered never to start the conversation with any form of hello .....im pretty sure saying “hello” to a woman on tinder / similar dating app is like putting sandpaper on her vagina

never forget gentlemen she is primarily on there to find a guy to have wild sex with just like you are , however she just doesn’t want to admit it

I always start with knocking them off their stool

“ so you want to chat or just keep on stalking my pics ? “

Its crazy how much more responsive and submissive they are to that compared to your average “hey”

Now where you take the conversation from here is entirely up to you ive tried lots of stuff and i can tell you what doesn’t work

relentlessly messaging back and forth attempting to create a connection with her

This sounds like a great idea at first doesn’t it...... “ i know il shoot her a couple of messages now she will see how much of a cool guy i am and then she will surely want to meet me for sex......surely”

Well let me tell you now I’ve had almost every conversation you could imagine with women on tinder it still don’t get you any closer to that lovely hole she has between her thighs

You want to know what gets you the furthest

Being as blunt as you can possibly manage without being rude and using sexual innuendo at every possible opportunity

No kisses , no emojjis , no compliments


Once you start doing this she cant read you and because she cant read you she cant gauge your interest

Which guess what

Raises HER interest in you


You will notice that when shes into you she will be trying to keep the conversation going and trying to get you to validate her any way she can

Offer her a bone ( your number)

Again keep texts short and sweet , her interest level should be about as high as its going to get now without actually meeting you in person , so you need to arrange the meet up and quickly
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Does tinder work the same for older women?
 

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honestly i wouldn't be able to tell you,i have virtually no experience with women over the age of 30
 

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I have my first tinder bite...44 blond looks very good
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jetleg

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Here is my tinder guide: delete the app and go meet women in the real world, waste of time bro, tinder b1tches are crazy.
 

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Can't even get a match, but in real life I can women a lot easier. Boggles my mind. Usually have about 3 cheesy pick up lines I use on Tinder
 

dustmuffin

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Here is my tinder guide: delete the app and go meet women in the real world, waste of time bro, tinder b1tches are crazy.
We have a mutual friend. This might work out well. I have gone through okcupid. Need to wait awhile. It passes the time at work.
 
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