She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nah, he's guilty in the court of my opinion because of a long history of douchiness that is at the very center of his character.Tenacity said:^^ Shows how easy it is for a woman to fvck a guy's life up in this country, literally, ALL she has to do is make an accusation.
Of course Oreilly is guilty because a woman said he is, right?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
----------FairShake said:
So being an arrogant a.sshole means you are guilty of this type of accusation? I mean my goodness, I'm an arrogant a.sshole at times, so if a chick says I tombstone piledrived her a.ss, by your logic I MUST have done it because I'm an arrogant a.sshole?FairShake said:
White=guilty till proven innocent or a bully, loudmouth, arrogant, know-it-all and a liarFairShake said:
*Preen, Preen, Cuck ,Cuck*FairShake said:
FairShake said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This isn't just " a woman", it's his own daughter telling how he attacked her mother. He spent years talking sh1t about dudes beating up their wives/girlfriends and he was doing the same thing beating up his own wife. Right wingers are hypocrites and this idiot should be off the air. If this was a liberal Fox would be screaming 24/7 about it. Not much in our "Liberal Media" about it.Tenacity said:^^ Shows how easy it is for a woman to fvck a guy's life up in this country, literally, ALL she has to do is make an accusation.
Of course Oreilly is guilty because a woman said he is, right?
And yet still the e-preening anti-white race cuck has not bought his one way ticket to Liberia :crazy:FairShake said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
-------FairShake said:
I actually have a half-black daughter who's mine all mine.( . )( . ) said:
If a bulletin board full of racists haven't called you a racist you're not doing it right. So flame on cuz screw you sh!tlibs/sodomites!
----------FairShake said:
Happens all the time, Galyan. Nasty divorce, daughter takes mom's side...they concoct some "domestic violence" story.Jaylan said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.