"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bikes/Biking

Potbelly

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hey guys

I just got a bike :) It's pretty cheap, but it's for college and I won't be afraid if it gets stolen. Anyways, do you guys have any advice for a beginning bicyclist? How do I get really good???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Budda57

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I am a triathlete and cyclist out here in the Northwest; the only way to get good on a bicycle is by RIDING!! Start small in miles and work up to many miles on a single ride. Enjoy yourself and think about all the money your saving on gas while riding!
 

Vulpine

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I just got my bikes out of storage, and I've got to say, take a long, long, long trip soon after you get your bike. That way, you get bruises in your crotch. Take a few days off from riding and you're all set, no more saddle sores. I rode about 20 miles on back-to-back days right after I got my Trek out of storage. Ouch. But now, I hop on the bike and it takes a considerably longer time before I start getting uncomfortable.

If you are riding for fitness... don't be afraid to shift. Stay seated and try to keep the pace/heartrate steady. When you get to hills and such, downshift as needed to keep your butt in the saddle and keep the same pace. Sure, you won't be going uphill very quick, but it will keep your heartrate in "fat burn" mode versus "cardio" mode. Once you've lost your weight, then you can get more aggressive with the gears and work on speed/muscle/cardio.

And, as Budda mentioned, start on small trips and work up. When you add distance, decrease your rate the first time. Then, next time, increase your rate with the same distance. Then, add more distance/reduce rate, then increase rate again... etc. etc. You'll find it easier on the body to do it that way - you won't get your azz kicked as hard, and will be ready to ride the next day.

Oh, and don't be afraid to stretch before, and after, rides.
 
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