Okay, I've been to parties in the past but from what I hear this party is supposed to be KILLER! Most of the parties I go to I know a lot of people so I don't need much help with the ladies but tonight I'm goign out of town where I don't know anyone! How can I approach a woman at a party without sounding like an idiot...(and yes there will be alcohol and some other illegal substances there i'm sure)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BIGGG party tonight...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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