"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Biggest Success Story

Zerotwoonenine

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6 years ago i came into united kingdom, i was 11 and i couldn't speak english, i was weak, i was bullied at school, i was chased around and girls didn't even look at me. 3 years ago my heart was broken by one girl, and around one year ago i seeked help from this site, since then i have improved from a WBAFC into a DJ, my outlook on life has changed, even my looks has improved, girls are no longer disgusted by the real me, they desire the real me. This new school term(from september), i gained entry to a good six form, the high school below is all girls, from 3 weeks ago, i met my perfect girl, acutally in the summer i met her sister and her sister saw that we are perfect for each other, 3 weeks ago i began the chase, 2 weeks ago i knew she desired me, that wednsday i had my first kiss in school at break time(her second) and on that sunday, i took her to the cinema and asked her to be my girlfriend by the river. Now we are so happy together and our relationship is going well, we have hopes of continuing this relationship for ever because we are so happy with each other.
I waited 6 years for my perfect girl and she waited 5 years for a perfect guy, now we have found each other.
Trust me on this, there is a perfect somebody out there for everyone, you just have to practice the fundamentals and so when that chance comes, you can grab it.:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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muzicfreak2k3

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congrats man n goodluck wit the relationship ;]
 

kev me723

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Nice work man. Going from a loser to actually kicking ass all the time is pretty awesome. Make sure you don't get too ahead of yourself, it's funny how all WOMEN think that there is such a thing as a perfect relationship...
 

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Awesome :)

One thing you must ALWAYS keep in mind. You are 17. That is a lot more valuable then money ever will be, with kids, marriage, buying stuff, and the whole sha-bang.
 

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Sounds to me like she's going to dump you for being too obsessive... how can you find the perfect chick at 17? :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FVCK YEAH!!!!!!!!!! SOSUAVE ROCKS!!!!!!!!!

congrads

some posts about what you've learned would be greatly appreciated.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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yea thanks guys, i know i know, it is hard to find the girl that is right for you, but believe me, i just know, and i truly believe there is someone out there for everyone, just yesterday we spend 7 hours together, watching movies and stuff. Our relationship is nearly 2 weeks long now and i have never been happier. I said to her yesterday as we were kissing:"would you be comfortable if i moved things further on?" and she replied:"no...i want to get to know you first." She has never done anything with guys before and i had literally done nothing as well, so that just tells me that we are right for each other.
Good luck you guys and a big thanks to sosuave, if it wasn't for this site, i wouldn't be who i am today.
 

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Nobody said:
Sounds to me like she's going to dump you for being too obsessive... how can you find the perfect chick at 17? :rolleyes:
I was about to say the same thing. The kid has a lot to learn about relationships...
 

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a grirl you've dated for 3 weeks and shared your first kiss with means nothing. she'll drop u in a minute.
be more independant.
 

spesmilitis

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Patrick124 said:
a grirl you've dated for 3 weeks and shared your first kiss with means nothing. she'll drop u in a minute.
be more independant.
He'll figure it out by himself. Besides, he's only 17. :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys its true that i don't know much about relationships, all i know is that this feels right, and that we both feel the same way about each other.
 

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Good on him, Zerotwoonenine is happy, no one can hold that against him.

Besides, the only pure way of learning is to learn the hard way. Failing now is the building blocks to succeeding in the future.

Just enjoy it buddy. You do have a lot of learning in front of you however. Just be aware of what happens around you, never let infatuation cloud sensible judgement.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys its true that i don't know much about relationships, all i know is that this feels right, and that we both feel the same way about each other.
haha man that first love i think we all remember it hope things do work out but most likley it wont not trying to break your balls just tellin you how life sucks sometimes. but with all of us warning u incase it happens dont let it get to ya because you know why you have this site and us. and we all have been through the same thing like my first chick was like yours was in love for 3 weeks one month came she broke up wit me. so like i said not saying it will happen but most likley it will.
 
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