Basically right now in this relationship with this girl I realized I am the biggest simp ever. She has me listening to usher music and **** and basically I'm over here giving her my all and its obvious that she is not giving me her all.... We been goin out for 2 months and she tells me shes in love with me and she loves me and I tell her it back. She even tells her mom that she wants to marry me. I try to become dis-attached from her but I really have strong feelings for her and I can't.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Biggest Simp
- Thread starter Pierce
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How is she not giving it her all if she's telling you she loves you after two months... and then telling her mom that she wants to marry you?
Good god, I'd say she's giving you too much of her all.
Get ooouuut. And go bang slvts. You're only 19 once.
Good god, I'd say she's giving you too much of her all.
Get ooouuut. And go bang slvts. You're only 19 once.
wjh
Master Don Juan
So what exactly is the problem?Pierce said:Basically right now in this relationship with this girl I realized I am the biggest simp ever. She has me listening to usher music and **** and basically I'm over here giving her my all and its obvious that she is not giving me her all.... We been goin out for 2 months and she tells me shes in love with me and she loves me and I tell her it back. She even tells her mom that she wants to marry me. I try to become dis-attached from her but I really have strong feelings for her and I can't.
What is a simp?
You're in a relationship with a girl you like, and that's a problem?
Can you please clarify?
wjh
Master Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DondottaJuanpappa
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I think you sub-consciously feel obligated to say I love you back, and she knows this. She's playing the game bro. Be a different story if you were older and you've been together for a few years. It takes time to build true love. If in fact she was the first to say I love you, you should of said, "I know" (with a smirk on your face). Then you probably wouldn't be listening to Usher. lmao.
=VAGO=
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I admire your honesty. Understand that by admiting it you may have hit a low. Do some reading around here, take what ever advice works for you and forget the rest. If you wanna be that guy,19 with a baby stroller and a clingy chick, you will. Visualize yourself as a Don Juan and you will eventually become the true Man that you've always dreamed of. That's all,goodbye, for now! >=)
WalkingStick
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Be careful. It probably wont happen this early in the relationship, but if you start becoming way more invested than she is, you will start acting like a chump. It's easy to do in LTRs
Don't worry about it, just watch yourself and you'll be fine.
Don't worry about it, just watch yourself and you'll be fine.
Evil_Muska
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Lemmie tell you a little story.Pierce said:We been goin out for 2 months and she tells me shes in love with me and she loves me and I tell her it back. She even tells her mom that she wants to marry me. I try to become dis-attached from her but I really have strong feelings for her and I can't.
Once upon a time there was a guy names Muska, and he became very smitten with a girl. Muska and the girl went out on a date, and soon after the first date, decided they wanted to be together. Muska loved her, and she told him frequently that he was the perfect boyfriend, and hoped she could keep him forever. They were so happy, until one day, the girl changed....
She grew horns, a spiked tail, and transformed into a completely different person. She bossed Muska around, and made him keep in constant contact with her, or else she would yell and scream and throw a tantrum. Well one day the girl decided she was going to go forget Muska and have fun. She went out and started having fun, and talking and having sex with other guys, and this made Muska sad.
6 months after Muska had met this once-wonderful girl, one week after his birthday, the devil-b*tch let go of Muska, threw him away, and was never hear of again.
THE END
So yeah, she can SAY a whole lot of lovey dove bullsh*t, but the chances of it lasting when they get like that so early, is slim to none, so enjoy what you got with her right now. It probably won't last.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
I'm sorry. Who are you and what the hell is the problem?Pierce said:Basically right now in this relationship with this girl I realized I am the biggest simp ever. She has me listening to usher music and **** and basically I'm over here giving her my all and its obvious that she is not giving me her all.... We been goin out for 2 months and she tells me shes in love with me and she loves me and I tell her it back. She even tells her mom that she wants to marry me. I try to become dis-attached from her but I really have strong feelings for her and I can't.
All this whining without even discussing what the actual problem is. Wait a minute...are you the girl in the relationship, and you're talking about the man?
Just trying to get the story straight.
Nexus Polaris
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^I had a whole speech prepared until I read that last part. Drop her ass.
See you have learned something on here after all and you also found out that pretty much all women are the same.When i was in high school we had a saying that went " ***** aint nothing but meat on the bone you **** it you suck and then you leave it alone" I find this to still be true to this day:crackup:Pierce said:now she tells me she cheated on me 2x by kissin two dudes. LOL
SHE DONE ****ED UP LOL. things will definately change.
she solved my problem. i thought i loved her till i heard that. ima milk da cow baby.