"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BIGGEST MISTAKE WE ALL MAKE (afcs, players, alpha men, ALL OF US)

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So you've done a cold approach, u got the #, u have the date, u make out passionately in the back of ur car/at the park/at the movies/even at ur house

maybe feel her up a lil bit, maybe finger her, maybe she rubs ur c0ck, but of course if ur somewhere remotely public, then chances are u wont have sex with her that night. So you take her home say bye and ill call u......

THEN WHAT HAPPENS????

all of a sudden u somehow someway end up never seeing her again!!!!

i KNOW that for all those who got lotsa experience with girls have this happen at least sometimes, AFCs probly have it happen the most (if they even get to the point of kissing the girl lol), players have it happen sometimes due to bein with so many girls and obv not ALWAYS having 100% success....and im sure even those who consider themselves alpha male have had this happen too!

so, WHAT IS THE MISTAKE I SPEAK OF????

THE GUY DOES NOT ATTEMPT TO ESCALATE THE KISSING/FONDLING INTO SEX

i know for a fact that if i take a sample size of 10 girls ive at teh very least kissed, i ended up fvckin girls who i didnt think i would, but i did simply cuz i TOOK THEM TO MY ROOM, PUT THEM ON MY BED, AND JUST ESCALATED THE KISSING INTO SEX

but out of those 10, i did that to lets say only 4 or 5.........and well well well, the other 5 or 6 girls i for some reason simply decided not to try to escalate, and what happened?? I NEVER SAW THEM AGAIN

lets look at it this way - best case scenario/worst case scenario if u choose to escalate from kissing to sex

worst case - she says NO and u carry on with the kissing, then decide if shes worth it later (btw turn up the kino and eye contact and try to finger her, she mite change her mind

best case - u take the kissing and turn it into sex by simply progressing and escalating things (kissing, rubbing, fingering, undressing, ect) - aka u END UP GETTIN LAID


this is why, my advice (and i speak from successes AND failures) is no matter WHERE U ARE, whether its dinner, movies, bowling, action date, club, WHEREVER THE **** U ARE, always and i mean ALWAYS ask her subtly if she wants to go back to ur place to watch a movie, eat, drink, w/e (make it subtle, but she WILL get the hint that u wanna **** her) and if she says YES, then u are 100% in and the only thing that could stop u from getting laid at that point is YOU

by the way, goign to HER place would work too

****IN ESCALATE - ive made the mistakes of not escalating and i would prob have ****ed the girls that i didnt ****, yet at the same time there were girls i didnt really think id **** but thanks to me just going for it, to my surprise, i DID **** them (girls seem to really want to have sex as long as its all private and no one knows about it aka they dont fear people seeing them as a slut)

just some advice there, no matter if ur afc, pimp, alpha, virgin, THIS is the #1 reason u didnt get laid by the last girl that u passionately made out with and then never saw again!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girls, especially young ones, are highly fickle and state-oriented. Once their BT is up, you must strike when the iron is hot if at all logistically possible. Because you are just their flava-of-the-moment at the right place/time... Tomorrow, you will soon be replaced by another cvmgun.

Of course, if you want a relationship, sometimes it is better to slow down the sexual stuff. You have to figure out what you want and calibrate for it.
 
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Hey skip we were talking about how black guys (me, lol) are more successful with chicks than white guys, I agree and disagree but..you said,

"ALWAYS ask her subtly if she wants to go back to ur place to watch a movie."

This is great, just as long as you stay in your sexual flow and just progress it..I usually don't ask fo shyt, lol..I usually just go park somewhere, drive to my place, etc...she follows. I start the rubbing and kissing her neck and shyt and it just happens.

Just stay in sexual flow and let it happen......let it flow, let it flow
 

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djf - have u also made the mistake of not escalating to sex with a girl that u were makign out with?
 

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DonJuanForever said:
Hey skip we were talking about how black guys (me, lol) are more successful with chicks than white guys, I agree and disagree but..you said,

"ALWAYS ask her subtly if she wants to go back to ur place to watch a movie."

This is great, just as long as you stay in your sexual flow and just progress it..I usually don't ask fo shyt, lol..I usually just go park somewhere, drive to my place, etc...she follows. I start the rubbing and kissing her neck and shyt and it just happens.

Just stay in sexual flow and let it happen......let it flow, let it flow

black guys are more successful because they are more confident, better at the game by very stuff you've mentioned e.g. flow
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donArjun said:
black guys are more successful because they are more confident, better at the game by very stuff you've mentioned e.g. flow
Well, the US Matriarx helps too - by emphasizing their + stereotype while denying their - ones. That's why Blacks do best in America or Americanized cultures. In non-Americanized ones, they don't fare nearly as well. You would not know this if you've never travelled abroad though...
 
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"djf have u also made the mistake of not escalating to sex with a girl that u were makign out with?"

noooo, lol. Reason being is that everytime I get around a chick I'm in sexual state now, so all the stuff really just flows...you know even Pook was talking about the secret of the jerk is that he's not afraid of his testerone..well when I'm in sexual state, shyt just flows and I go with it.

Some girls I fvck on the first round, some it's takes a couple of rounds, lol. But I know in my heart that the chick is feelin me, she just wants me to chase her a bit more, lol. Which is cool.

I keep telling you guys this is simple, now who wants to do Real Estate?
 
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