“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Biggest green flag.

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Your gut is comfortable and keeps you comfortable while dealing with her, this is the biggest green flag you will experience.

Your brain is not equipped to see through the tricks and games, your gut is....listen to your gut always.
 

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Green Flags:

-Zero hassles when setting up dates.
-Zero excuses on why she can't meet up when given adequate notice.
-On time to dates.
-Offers to pay on the 3rd or 4th date.
-Few schitt tests.
-Puts her phone away on the first couple dates.
-Good family background. She needs to get along with both parents well and spent time with her grandparents.
-A minimal amount of selfies on her social media.
-Few emotional meme's on her social media.
-Believes men should lead and women should follow.
-Has a hobby that doesn't involve clothes, shoes, make up, hair, nails, cosmetic surgery, etc.
-Doesn't interrupt during conversations. This means she has self control.
-Submissive.
-Always replies to texts/calls in a timely manner.
-Great conversations.
-Doesn't jump into a relationship too fast, nor too slow.
-Accepts responsibility
-Positive
-Doesn't hate on her ex's.
-Has been with less than 10 guys by age 40.

The best girls I've been with had all or a large portion of these characteristics.
 
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1) coming multiple times from the other side of the club just to say a single word to you .
2) initiating conversation
3) treat her like trash and keeps coming back
4) never saying No to fck .
5) swallowing your load without telling her anything
6) traveling hundreds of miles just to see you for an hour
7) no jealousy
8) knows your power
9) being a biatch to everybody else and a little girl while talking to you
10) always responds at your texts and calls even if it’s 3 am
 

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Green Flags:

-Zero hassles when setting up dates.
-Zero excuses on why she can't meet up when given adequate notice.
-On time to dates.
-Offers to pay on the 3rd or 4th date.
-Few schitt tests.
-Puts her phone away on the first couple dates.
-Good family background. She needs to get along with both parents well and spent time with her grandparents.
-A minimal amount of selfies on her social media.
-Few emotional meme's on her social media.
-Believes men should lead and women should follow.
-Has a hobby that doesn't involve clothes, shoes, make up, hair, nails, cosmetic surgery, etc.
-Doesn't interrupt during conversations. This means she has self control.
-Submissive.
-Always replies to texts/calls in a timely manner.
-Great conversations.
-Doesn't jump into a relationship too fast, nor too slow.
-Accepts responsibility
-Positive
-Doesn't hate on her ex's.
-Has been with less than 10 guys by age 40.

The best girls I've been with had all or a large portion of these characteristics.
Plus 1 for Howie’s list.

I’d add:

-She dresses with class & makes an effort to look her best for you always.

-She appreciates your TIME above all else (this is your most valuable commodity)

-She is diplomatic in disagreements (this indicates both deference and respect for you while demonstrating self respect). You find a woman who can do that & you’ve got something.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ok .. going to read all theese later but I got the DEFACTO Number one ULTIMATE Green Flag...

She eats your azz nice and clean

Yup .. nothing really beats that for getting to know ya.
 
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