"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Biggest AFC mistake you ever made

XSilverStarboyX

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I think the worst was one I did about a month ago. A girl I was working on macking had let me kiss her on the cheek. I just did it since it feels gay asking for a kiss. Well One day, I lost all control of myself and went for the lips. She pushed me away and all my macking went to waste.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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XSilverStarboyX

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Smooth Player 056 said:
DAFS we have a thread about this already.
Where is it?


edit: Never mind, I found it
 

612_Da_Playa

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1. Grabbed a girl's but just cause I felt like it LOL
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2. Called a girl a Lez cause she wouldn't go out with me:down:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wavejams007

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I never once in my life did anything remotely AFCish.



actually, I guess I used to hold this one girl up on a pedastal, way after she had rejected me, and it took me a long while till I could get a grip and realize that she in fact wasn't the only worthwhile girl in the world.
 

VegasGuy56

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After using my Pick-up skills to seduce a girl I knew from a long time ago, I ended up becoming an AFC for 4 months before she dumped me. Took a long time to recover, but now I'm back to being the PUA I am.
 

DJ4Real

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Acting "nice" and expecting more than just friendship.
 

six-foot AZN '05

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apologized, tried to fix her problems, gave one girl a lot of attention, too emotionally attached to whether the girl would accept me or not
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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coolguy676767

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Ok this is sad, I can't believe I did it....I know how bad it is really, I think I win on this one, seriously, but this was way before I knew what I was doing and I have changed so much since:

I was friends with this girl for like 4 months, and everytime she got into a fight with her b/f I kept asking why she was still going out with him, and that she deserved better.......then I got her balloons on valentines day after they broke up and later asked her out over the internet. I seriously don't think that I left a DJ rule unbroken. Needless to say I am so glad I found this site.

I know I know....there is no excuse.
 

DogFashionDisco

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is that all? you guys suck. I've done the biggest AFC thing here.

After my gf broke up with me, I begged for her to come back for about 7 hours. Before the begging, I told her that I was falling for her and that I'd do anything for her. And talked about what our future could be together. Oh and this was online, on myspace. A little bit on the phone. And she was on and off of myspace throughout the day. But I just sat there waiting for her to come back on so that I could beg some more. Then I wasted a whole roll of toilet paper balling my eyes out after she made it official. Then I thought about suicide. Oh, and I still want to get back with her.


Beat that! No one's more AFC than me. I'm a *****.
 
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