"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Biggest AFC mistake you ever made

XSilverStarboyX

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I think the worst was one I did about a month ago. A girl I was working on macking had let me kiss her on the cheek. I just did it since it feels gay asking for a kiss. Well One day, I lost all control of myself and went for the lips. She pushed me away and all my macking went to waste.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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XSilverStarboyX

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Smooth Player 056 said:
DAFS we have a thread about this already.
Where is it?


edit: Never mind, I found it
 

612_Da_Playa

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1. Grabbed a girl's but just cause I felt like it LOL
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2. Called a girl a Lez cause she wouldn't go out with me:down:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wavejams007

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I never once in my life did anything remotely AFCish.



actually, I guess I used to hold this one girl up on a pedastal, way after she had rejected me, and it took me a long while till I could get a grip and realize that she in fact wasn't the only worthwhile girl in the world.
 

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After using my Pick-up skills to seduce a girl I knew from a long time ago, I ended up becoming an AFC for 4 months before she dumped me. Took a long time to recover, but now I'm back to being the PUA I am.
 

DJ4Real

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Acting "nice" and expecting more than just friendship.
 

six-foot AZN '05

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apologized, tried to fix her problems, gave one girl a lot of attention, too emotionally attached to whether the girl would accept me or not
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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coolguy676767

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Ok this is sad, I can't believe I did it....I know how bad it is really, I think I win on this one, seriously, but this was way before I knew what I was doing and I have changed so much since:

I was friends with this girl for like 4 months, and everytime she got into a fight with her b/f I kept asking why she was still going out with him, and that she deserved better.......then I got her balloons on valentines day after they broke up and later asked her out over the internet. I seriously don't think that I left a DJ rule unbroken. Needless to say I am so glad I found this site.

I know I know....there is no excuse.
 

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is that all? you guys suck. I've done the biggest AFC thing here.

After my gf broke up with me, I begged for her to come back for about 7 hours. Before the begging, I told her that I was falling for her and that I'd do anything for her. And talked about what our future could be together. Oh and this was online, on myspace. A little bit on the phone. And she was on and off of myspace throughout the day. But I just sat there waiting for her to come back on so that I could beg some more. Then I wasted a whole roll of toilet paper balling my eyes out after she made it official. Then I thought about suicide. Oh, and I still want to get back with her.


Beat that! No one's more AFC than me. I'm a *****.
 
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