"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bigg Rejection ..

macking

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Yesterday I went in the club. I did some approaches and it was a GOOD NIGHT :D.
But than suddenly I was drinking something in my own and a pointed at a girl. She has turned her back to me and she was staying quietly. Her friends came and they started to call her to go home. She wanted to stay a little bit more.
I counted in 3 :p but all of the sudden she started to wear her jacket (getting ready to go home).
I wanted to be little playful and a gentleman:p and wanted to help her wearing her jacket Buutt ...
She turned to me screaming DOOOON'T TOUCH ME BLLAH BLLAH .
I was shocked :D
What would you do guys?
How would you avoid these kind of rejections?
Anyway in the end of the night I had a kissclose ( so fvck that biatch :p )
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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playa99

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you've gotta roll with the punches mate
you're gonna get some rejections like this
accept it and next her
a girl who disrespects you doesnt deserve the time of day
seems like you did though as you had a kiss close :p
 

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It's all good mate. Most guys have similar experiences. You just learn to move on.

Maybe, you should have tried talking to her first before you went along to help her with jacket? She probably thought you were some creep trying to touch her. If that is not the case, then she is she over doing it.

I have had one where I tried to approach a girl that was giving me some eye contact. She was dancing. When I walked upto her, she quickly moved to the other side to avoid me. I smiled and walked away.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Deadly_Assassin said:
I smiled and walked away.
Thats the best response for bitchy responses

You cant avoid them . They are attention whores . They are not rejecting you , they are calling for attention . And they do whatever it takes to get it .

Also there are a lot of psychos out there . Maybe they had a bad day , or their boyfriend dumped them or maybe their cat died and all that shoot all that anger on you

But dont worry . This is nothing . Keep approaching . Youll get these kind of responses , but youll also get tons of pussy by approaching . So its worthy :D

I respect alot people who approach .
 

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you could say DONT FLATTER YOURSELF lol
bit ****y but shes being b1tchy so she deserves it lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when I get instant rejections I yell at them in a playful way "you're the most EVIL little thing" with a big smile on my face as I turn my back. But I don't walk away. Half of the time they'll say something back like they had a rough nite or some apology. (credit to Mehow)
 

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she turns her back to you and then you try to touch her.

nice job scaring her. btchiness has nothing to do with it
 

macking

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playa99 said:
you could say DONT FLATTER YOURSELF lol
bit ****y but shes being b1tchy so she deserves it lol
I couldn't say nothing. She was yelling on ME :D
Thank you for help bross :up:
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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I'd say just don't run up to girls from behind and start touching them in that way. That might not be the best way to break the ice. :rolleyes: She was probably drunk too and you just came off as a creepo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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nismo-4 said:
You approached from behind, you nitwit, you froze the ice!
Good point. Doing creepy sh*t makes you a creep. PERIOD. No justification.
 

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That's why you should read about MM group dynamics.

HBs friends can really be a biatch.
 
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