"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Big Ten basketball!

Who will end up 1st in the Big Ten?

  • Illinois

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • Indiana

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Iowa

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Michigan

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Michigan State

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Ohio State

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Wisconsin

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    7

Bonhomme

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Anyone else here follow Big Ten hoops?

Right now there are 7 teams in the Sagarin computer rankings (http://www.usatoday.com/sports/sagarin.htm)* top 20 and the Bow Down To Entropy(http://mintaka.sdsu.edu/~dokter/sw/hr06) top 25*, and a bunch of 'em are tied with 5-2 conference records.

Strangely enough, even though they're in 7th place at 4-3 in conference play, I think Michigan State is in the best position to win the conference title, being the only team to win an away game against one of the other of the top 7. The bottom 4 teams are vastly inferior to the top 7, and can only factor in as spoilers.

There's a good chance there will be 7 top 5 seeds in the big dance, and not a single Big Ten team in the NIT.

* I pay attention to the Sagarin and Bow Down To Entropy rankings, because they don't have the bias of the AP or coaches' rankings (which tend to have inertia), and -- unlike some other computer-based methods -- they do take margin of victory into account.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I watch the Illini. They play great defense but their offense basically goes as Dee Brown goes.

MSU lost today.
 

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The info I got says MSU won, albeit narrowly (http://www.usatoday.com/sports/college/mensbasketball/games/2006-01-28-michstate-pennstate_x.htm).

Big man Paul Davis was out.

Injuries will play BIG in the mix.

I'm actually still thinking about my pick. A week or 2 ago, I have thought Indiana or Illinois. But then MSU took out Ohio State away, and now I really like the way the Wolverines are developing. They've just beat 2 top 25 teams with one of their best players (Lester Abram) riding the bench. Their bench is kicking ass.
 

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Thad Matta will pull it out. I think the Buckeyes have a shot at beating a tough Iowa team at home tonight.
 

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My God, the Pac-10 sucks in those rankings. And overall. But still.

I voted Indiana because the last time I read anything about college basketball (other than Washington) was three weeks ago.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dunno if I can give an honest take, being so biased for Michigan, but they damn near took out the Illini on the road, and they're a better team now than they were then.

Yeah, if OSU can take out Iowa on the road, that would cancel the loss to MSU. OSU definitely needs a big road win. I should get a ticket to Mich/OSU. That should be one helluva war!

Regarding the Pac 10, it does appear a bit down this year. At least not very deep. But UCLA did beat Michigan at Michigan. Michigan is mainly an inside team, and anybody who can get good looks from downtown can kill 'em with 3s, which -- along with studying up on how Michigan inbounded the ball (which they've since adjusted a bit) -- is how UCLA took 'em out.
 

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I can say the same about the ILLINI!


:) to much reliance on DEE on that team
 

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One thing's for certain, and that's MSU being the most inconsistent team in the conference. Got easily taken out by Illinois, slaughtered by Wisconsin by about 20 points, then beat OSU in their own building and drubbed Iowa by 30!

Which Spartans team will show up in their next big game?
 

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It's shaped up to be one hell of a race!

Nobody at all voted for Iowa or Wisconsin, who are currently tied for the lead with Ohio State and Illinois, with Michigan State just 1 game back, having home games against Ohio State, Wisconsin, and Illinois remaining (MSU has not lost at home this year). MSU has already split with Iowa, who has to play Illinois away. But MSU also has to get by Indiana away, barring other upsets.

My fave Michigan lost another starter late in the Ohio State game, after which they imploded (they were ahead in the game when he went down, after which they were creamed). They may be a real good "sleeper" pick in the big dance if they get both their injured starters back by then. Especially getting something like a #11 or # 12 seed, which appears likely at this point.

Right now I'd say advantage Iowa, despite their having dropped one to Minnesota today. If MSU takes out Indiana at Indiana, we could very well see a tie, maybe even a 3 or 4 way tie.
 
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