"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hellboy

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Guys, I have a problem. I'm gonna try to be concise here.

Me and my girl have been together for over 6 months, and everything has been great. Great that is, except for my flatmate who seems to be getting along with her a little better than I would like. I have been concerned from the start that they have more in common naturally than I do with her as well as the fact that she seems to think that he is the funniest guy on the planet. Not to mention that I had a dream that I caught them together and almost killed him. So far I have been going to great lengths to keep them apart. Especially since my last girlfriend is now the girlfriend of one of my (ex) best friends.

Now, she has (long story) ended up moving in with me due to circumstances beyond my control. To cut a long story short she ends up sitting chatting with him whenever I'm not around (my ex did this with my ex friend). She's sitting with him right now.

I'm really agistated about this but I don't know what to do. They don't even know I'm home yet. I got in and heard them talking away in the living room.... I've been pacing about in frustration. Fvck. Am I just being a fool? What would YOU do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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ummm.....

well im guessing your flamate isnt one of your best friends?

or is he?


can you trust him to not make a move? and can you trust her to not do it?
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85544&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

Goth Girl moved in and it didn't end up being like you would expected it to be, just as I feared.

You forgot to mention that you were moving with her and another guy. That is much much worse. The bad news if he wants to hit it, he will. Your girlfriend cannot help herself from him talking to her because they live under the same roof. Its just like pandas in the zoo, you put a male and a female together in one confined space and eventually they are going to mate!

I suggest one of them has got to go or you know what is going to happen.

You have been watching the t.v show"friends" haven't you??guys and girls living together as platonic great friends???? lol.

GET OUT OF THE MATRIX!!!

DjDamage
 

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I have been concerned from the start that they have more in common naturally than I do with her as well as the fact that she seems to think that he is the funniest guy on the planet. Not to mention that I had a dream that I caught them together and almost killed him. So far I have been going to great lengths to keep them apart. Especially since my last girlfriend is now the girlfriend of one of my (ex) best friends.
Do you like living in fear?

Many mant years ago I used to be like you. OldMan would worry about his GF and who she get's on with and who she is talking with and what not.

Today I don't even think about it.

Why? because I'm in control.

Listen, I want my Gf to get on with my friends. and so should you.

If you GF fvcks your friend - then they both did you a great service. Better that you find out after 6 monnths that she's a slvet and you friend is a Mo Fo than 6 yrs.

You see where I am going with this?

you should never live in fear. Never fear if your woman is going to fvck someone else - If she does, she's just done you a great service and you can dump her a## now.

So you either need to pick your friends and woman more carefully. If you don't trust either why are you with them?

I'll repeat that again:

IF YOU DON'T TRUST HER, WHY ARE YOU WITH HER?
 

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New Man that post should be stickied. There should never be another post about whether or not a b*tch is cheating, ever again, after that post...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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