"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is a questioning of my morals...

I've been best friends with this guy for 3-4 years now. We're inseparable. We're bros, and nothing comes between us. He's the best friend I have, and we'll probably be extremely good friends throughout our lives.

But here's the problem..

He dated a girl on the guard that we both had a thing for for about three months, then broke it off to pursue new relationships. Plus, we're sophomores, and she's a senior.

I still have a thing for her, and she really likes me. The college thing wouldn't be a problem, since the college she's going to is literally 15 minutes away. It takes longer for me to drive to her house than the college campus.

The problem is that this guy is my bro, and the whole "Never date a bro's ex" thing comes into play. Although, he has come out and said "I don't care if you date her".

So, should I steer clear of her, and just remain really good friends with her, as it was when they dated?

Or, should I sit down with my friend and say "Hey, me and ___ really like each other. Would you mind if we gave things a shot?"

What do you guys think...?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't go there. A friendship is much better than a girl. A friend you will have forever. A girl could dump you in another week.
 
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Yeah, I definitely wouldn't just get with her. But I've heard a lot of examples where a guy set up his friend with a girl that he just didn't feel it with, and they ended up working out great. Maybe this could be a situation like that?

What I'm saying, is that I wouldn't do this without his complete blessing
 
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That's really one of the dumbest things you can do. Get another girl.
 
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