"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Big problem in college game.

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Most chicks are in a relationship. Whether it's Freshman girls still f*cking a guy they been with since High School or it's a girl who's getting engaged to some chode guy who happened to get lucky, probably through social circle. You can argue with it, but I've proven it. Most sets I go up to regardless, have a genuine BF or are engaged. This is a big f*cking problem in college.

I'm almost thinking bout going in with the mindset "F*ck your boyfriend, I'm your new BF". Seriously, what is it with these horny wh*res giving themselves out to chodes these days.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElStud said:
Most chicks are in a relationship. Whether it's Freshman girls still f*cking a guy they been with since High School or it's a girl who's getting engaged to some chode guy who happened to get lucky, probably through social circle. You can argue with it, but I've proven it. Most sets I go up to regardless, have a genuine BF or are engaged. This is a big f*cking problem in college.

I'm almost thinking bout going in with the mindset "F*ck your boyfriend, I'm your new BF". Seriously, what is it with these horny wh*res giving themselves out to chodes these days.

what college you go too?
do you go to college parties?
there tons of single chicks looking to hook up at parties!!
 

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Rounder said:
Or maybe it's just an excuse to get you to go away?
Ofcourse, that would explain why girls who have BF's have given me their numbers before and still talk to me after they say the BF thing. You're so right.
 

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ElStud said:
Ofcourse, that would explain why girls who have BF's have given me their numbers before and still talk to me after they say the BF thing. You're so right.
I was pointing out a possibility - then it would be up to you to decide how to work around such a situation.

Since you decided to take issue with my reply -

If you're getting #s from these women then what's the problem?

Although, when they start with 1-900 it probably isn't their number.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DAMN... NO WAY!

Chicks would be ALL OVER YOU if you just knew how to handle them... I think that's a fact!

If you were fun, cool, laid back, you'd have TONS of girls. This seems like a "poor me" excuse... Make more opportunities then you find!!

What happened to inspiration, motivation? This wouldn't stop you. "Opportunities are brilliantly disguised as impossible situations!" Dj bible bro. :p :D

Srious answer now, this totally isn't like this in my collage.......... SWEET! :D
 

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Solomon said:
what college you go too?
do you go to college parties?
there tons of single chicks looking to hook up at parties!!
Yeah really, single chicks are everywhere in college. Elstud, if all these "chode guys" are "getting lucky through their social circle", then why don't you learn from what they are doing? Meet them at parties through your social circle, that is if you have any friends, which I doubt.

Even the guys who meet women through cold approaching know the value of social proof (even if it's using friends they just made that same night), and this is probably the area that kills your game. Apparently the younger the girl is, the harder it is to get her to date "strangers" outside of her social circle. I can't speak for people in their 20s or 30s but I have noticed that this is very important at my age, and unlike you, I've adapted to it.

As for the girls who say they are engaged, I guess they just really don't know how to say no to you... :crackup:
Do you actually believe that half the 20 year olds in your college are engaged?!
 

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ElStud said:
Most chicks are in a relationship. Whether it's Freshman girls still f*cking a guy they been with since High School or it's a girl who's getting engaged to some chode guy who happened to get lucky, probably through social circle. You can argue with it, but I've proven it. Most sets I go up to regardless, have a genuine BF or are engaged. This is a big f*cking problem in college.

I'm almost thinking bout going in with the mindset "F*ck your boyfriend, I'm your new BF". Seriously, what is it with these horny wh*res giving themselves out to chodes these days.
Youre a f*ckin f*ggot. If you have so much game, like you seem to claim, then you shouldnt be having any problems. These "chodes" actually know what theyre doing. You havent proven sh*t, and you know it. Show us some facts, assclown. Youre a chode so why can you get one of these "*****s?"

Heres some advice...STOP F*CKING POSTING GARBAGE. You are the biggest tool ive ever encountered.
 

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It's normal to go through a dry spell during your first year of college. Most people are already "clique'd in" and you need some time to adjust. A lot of girls are also into guys that are older, and you're still the youngest. A lot of girls are still getting used to their new lifestyle and they don't have time for a relationship. Just be patient man. This is a limited disbelief that you will always have trouble with college chicks. It gets easier.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He's got a point. My first year in College most girls were still like that holding on to their HS guys etc.

I've seen a lot of girls move on after the first year and I personally have somehow found myself with older women lately.

Always an option aim for upperclass or graduated women instead of freshmen girls. With the right confidence and attitude your age doesn't show
 

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How many people go to your college? What city are you in? Are you part of any extracurricular activities? Do you do anything outside of school that involves people other than you and your male friends?

I already know you won't answer, but just so any noobs stroll by they can see what a tool you are.
 

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ElStud said:
Most chicks are in a relationship. Whether it's Freshman girls still f*cking a guy they been with since High School or it's a girl who's getting engaged to some chode guy who happened to get lucky, probably through social circle. You can argue with it, but I've proven it. Most sets I go up to regardless, have a genuine BF or are engaged. This is a big f*cking problem in college.

I'm almost thinking bout going in with the mindset "F*ck your boyfriend, I'm your new BF". Seriously, what is it with these horny wh*res giving themselves out to chodes these days.
http://i37.tinypic.com/2d15z78.jpg
 

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1. Most tell you they have a bf to get you to go away cause your game is weak
2. A lot if not most of the best looking ones do have bfs so have you tried lowering your standards a bit? even if they don't have bfs you gotta have good game for the hb 8s and above or they pull the bf card on you.
3. unless you are looking for a nice decent girl for a gf, then you can always go to college parties which are full of hot drunk hors. You will get yourself girls if you start hanging around in social circles.
4. Instead of going for white girls try going for asian girls. Asian girls in college are dying for fun and excitement because all they do is study and most don't have bfs because they concentrate on school.
 

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What college are you at? Most girls here stay single and have one or two guys they hook up with.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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