"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BIG obstacle!

Lost In Translation

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pepper

ok i just switched msn on

1. he wouldn't report me to the police if i beat him up, he would rather come back with some friends to knife me or bat me down or maybe shoot me, i dunno.

dump the chick but i got a feeling this idiot is gunna keep going

even after you break up

his hate

he hates you

in his mind he imagines you f*cking her

why ? because this sick prick wishes she wasn't his sister so he could f*ck her

the dude has issues

and no matter he is still gunna have this rage course through his veins everytime he sees you and it will remind him of his younger sister moaning

i think you are headed for a show down

*he is 24 years old so yes it would be immature of him to attack me again if we meet, but he will do it because it will trigger anger in his mind when he sees me

yes i think he will attack you again

you got some older criminal type friends who can put some fear into him ?

get a small container glitter container with cap that slips off not screw cap works best

go to supermarket and for under $1 buy some black pepper

empty glitter out ( can be bought at newsagents )

fill with black pepper

i had a guy attack me over some stupid sh*t once so i threw pepper in his eyes and that was the end of that lol

i couldn't be bothered beating him up

too many witnesses and i was at a bus stop waiting for my bus

and i kicked him in the balls at the same time that i threw the pepper

i was seated at the bus stop

hardest kick to groin ever

pepper in eyes

pepper in nose

his mouth was open pepper in mouth

so now he is blind and almost paralysed

NO FIGHT LOL

the bus arrived 20 seconds later i stepped over his body on ground and calmly got on the bus


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A sticky situation. What's the take of the girl on her brother's behavior/attitude/etc.?

About the guy: I think that coke heads are idiots in general, and are not capable of truly forming friendships (seeing as how coke is prioritized higher). Of course, they might band together temporarily to beat you up, but I would bet against that.

So here's what I would do (besides never be in this situation in the first place): think of a way to cut his coke supply. You'll be doing him a favor anyways, and he will be far more interested in getting coke than beating you up. This can be accomplished a number of ways: intervention of authorities, getting his dealer pissed off at him, etc. etc.

I don't advocate or condone any illegal behavior, so use your head and think of a smart way to solve this issue. Let it also be a lesson to you in the future; LIT and h2o had some good points.
 

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So here's what I would do (besides never be in this situation in the first place): think of a way to cut his coke supply.

no

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This can be accomplished a number of ways: intervention of authorities, getting his dealer pissed off at him

hell no

the kid has got one problem

f*cking with coke supply = death warrant

coke is a rich mans drug

the cops run it higher up

you want to piss off every corrupt cop in the city ?

the judges that use coke ?

the criminals involved will make him disapear grind up his body and dump the berlie off a fishing trawler leaving no trace

he doesn't need to be running around and making enemies

also by cutting off a drug addicts drug supply you are just giving the the push over the edge they need to kill you

leave the junkies alone


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ditch that b1tch. look where caring for her got you... you already got your face busted. its not worth it.
 

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LIT: good points. I would argue that if he was smart, he would figure out a way to do it covertly. Anything he does will entail risk, so it's really up to him to decide. What you've described is one possible scenerio; however, it does not take into consideration a very carefully planned and executed operation. Maybe submit an anonymous tip if he knows something big that's happening. Maybe steal his coke at a party and cause a fight between him and his friends as they mutually accuse each other. Who knows? All these, of course, are stupid speculations.

Upon further reflection, I am tempted to ultimately agree with LIT. It was stupid of me to suggest such an option, since I don't know all the details of his own intelligence and education. But it's a small town, he is not and does not wish to become involved in illegal activities. So what will you have him do instead?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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jayneumann

its coke not pot

the cops run it

covert or not you still gotta report your tip anonymous or not to cops

they gunna arrest themselves ?

they are gunna look for the tipster

you trying to rock the boat

next think you know you another statistic along with the other thousands of missing persons in your country each year

and thats not taking into account all the criminals who will want you dead


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I have an older sister (who is more like a little sister to me) and a younger sister. I'm protective of both. Though the younger sister could give a f*ck about what I say. Probably because she hasn't seen me in 13 years. Now she's stuck with some AFC dude whose emotions are out of control. Who has told her that he would "kill himself if she ever broke up with him". Her father (my step-father) raped and beat her everyday until she was 18. She lived in an area where police didn't do **** about it. When our part of the family finally got him behind bars, his part of the family threatened her and she told the police that she lied. When she turned 18, she finally ran away. Now her mind is completely F*cked up. Because of this, I'm a little more protective of her than my full-blood sister. She's currently with a guy that I fear will beat the **** out of her or something because his emotions are seriously out of control.

I've only talked to the guy once one-on-one in person. And that was the night that I first met him. We let him spend the night because he never got to see her.. And we wanted to meet him anyway. Our family naturally joke around with each other and poke fun at each other. He couldn't handle it when we poked fun at him a little bit. The next thing I know, out of nowhere he throws my moms husband's CD player against the wall and breaks it. Then he breaks down and crys (he was also 18). We were about to call his mother. He goes outside. I'm usually the calm one so I tell my parents that I'll go outside and talk to him. We take a walk around the school and he tells me about how kids at school always pick on him. I tell him how to deal with them. I even tell him that I'll deal with them for him. I ask him if he loves my sister and if he really wants to be with her. And he goes off on all of their relationship problems before answering the question the 2nd time I asked. I wanted to kick his ass.

After that night, I banned her from seeing him. Because of the fact that I pay the rent for my parents and the phone bill, I banned him from calling or coming around the house. She didn't listen to me. She dated him anyway. Whatever. She's too f*cked up because of what her father did to her. I did end up giving up on them. But I did tell him that if I ever saw him, I would kill him.

These are the guys that older brothers have nightmares about. Guys who can't control their emotions. We also have nightmares about a pimp coming along and pimping our sister, guys beating the **** out of her, etc.

But I'm guessing their brother and sister relationship is more like my relationship with my full-blood sister. And that's worse. Because my full-blood sister actually does listen to me. She won't date anyone that I don't agree with her dating. She knows that I'm a player. She knows about my past before I was a player. So, she knows that I know what to look for in men that could potentially hurt her. Because of me, not many men hurt her. This is why she listens to me. This is why her boyfriends have to get along with me before they can get into a relationship with her.

I don't know if this guys the same, but I like to put men through a series of tests. First of all, I want to see how they can handle their emotions. Second of all, I want to see if they can handle themselves in a fight (because sometimes guys do start fist fights over girls). I don't get into a fist fight with them. But I do try to force them into a fight. The perfect response would be to do exactly what you did. Don't throw a fist, but show me that you're not afraid of me. That you could put up a fight if I threw a punch. Third of all, they have to respect me. Because my sister won't date any guy that doesn't respect me. Fourth, it helps a lot to get on my good side. Don't become my enemy because I will make your life a living hell if you keep dating my sister. Become a good friend and I may even pull a few strings for you. Fifth, and most important, show me that you aren't me. I don't EVER want to see you in the same club as me doing the same thing I'm doing... Number closing for one night stands. Sixth, even though I don't want the guy to be a player (like myself), I don't want him to be a chump either. Because after all, I care about people. And if we're going to be cool with each other... Then I don't want to see you getting a bad case of oneitis with her either. Because that'll f*ck you up.

I hope it helps you to see what I look for in the guys that my sister dates.

My advice: If this guy were me... Only a bit crazier... Don't blow him off. You want to get on his good side. You've done good so far. The next step is meeting him and talking to him about it. So call him up and ask him to meet you in a public place (such as a coffee shop). No weapons, no fights. We talk about this like REAL men. Man to man. Qualify yourself to him. Most importantly, get on his good side. Become his friend (but don't try too hard to be his friend. If he reads through it, he'll know why you're trying to be his friend and he will kick your ass).
 

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If the girl is not worth getting beat up over, leave her and move on. If the guy keeps on coming, treat him like some unknown dude trying to assault you. In a situation like that, what would you do?
 

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Is it the same black chick you were talking about earlier? If so, cut her the **** loose. No chick is worth all this trouble.
 
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