"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Big neck
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
enkai
Senior Don Juan
DIESEL
Master Don Juan
There is a Hammer Strength machine for the neck, but I figure you would have to go to a gym geared towards football players to find it.
Or, you can buy yourself this head harness with a chain attached to it, that you can hook up to a pulley station (where you do tri pressdowns, cable biceps work) and do your exercises there.
I have no idea what it's called, at my gym the meatheads called it the "gimp mask" after that scene in "Pulp Fiction" I'm sure you know what scene I'm referring to !
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Put one hand on the side of your head and press your head against your hand ... and have your hand budge slowly. Repeat with the other side of your head. And also, when doing big, multi joint lifts, such as deads, squats, dips, whatever, add extra muscle tension by tightening your neck while lifting.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Ya like diesel said you can get a neck harness..its called a plain old "neck developer." I was really excited about it at first..but i cant really figure out how to use the damn thing. It always slips off when I try to do neck raises and stuff.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
ya, ddboswell probably has a monstrous neck.