"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Big neck
- Thread starter ozzfest
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
enkai
Senior Don Juan
DIESEL
Master Don Juan
There is a Hammer Strength machine for the neck, but I figure you would have to go to a gym geared towards football players to find it.
Or, you can buy yourself this head harness with a chain attached to it, that you can hook up to a pulley station (where you do tri pressdowns, cable biceps work) and do your exercises there.
I have no idea what it's called, at my gym the meatheads called it the "gimp mask" after that scene in "Pulp Fiction" I'm sure you know what scene I'm referring to !
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Put one hand on the side of your head and press your head against your hand ... and have your hand budge slowly. Repeat with the other side of your head. And also, when doing big, multi joint lifts, such as deads, squats, dips, whatever, add extra muscle tension by tightening your neck while lifting.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Ya like diesel said you can get a neck harness..its called a plain old "neck developer." I was really excited about it at first..but i cant really figure out how to use the damn thing. It always slips off when I try to do neck raises and stuff.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
ya, ddboswell probably has a monstrous neck.