"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BIG Mistake

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I'm so stupid. I learned a big lesson in the past week or so. I doubt this will help any of you, but right now I need a place to vent, so I don't know. I decided to ask my EX to homecoming about a week ago as friends., after she broke up with her boyfriend (who i didnt like at all, he was an @sshole, hes all punk skater type..............(no offense to anyone)) Anyways, things were going good between us, and I was thinking of trying to get back with her...Tonight, I get home from a hockey game with her dad, and then, in her profile on AIM, it says "i love you tim :D ") I hate to get all feelish and shyt, but I was dead heartbroken...And now I'm pissed because I shouldnt have asked her to homecoming to begin with, it would have kept me from alot of problems...this sucks!!!!! Sorry I had to vent, and it was probably retarted to open a new thread, but whatever..im pissed and tired as hell right now. I'd appreciate it if anyone will comment on this, even if you just call me a jack@ss.

Thanks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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At least you're learning.
 

InsidiousNstinct

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just ask another girl to homecoming, or go solo. Or you could challenge her to a hockey match and check her into the boards a lot :).....just kidding

Seriously though you just gotta move on and say NEXT mane.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Ask yourself why you asked her again.

I'd like to hear your answer.

My PM box is always open if you feel uncomfortable saying it here ;)
 

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Thanks guys, after reading the responses and getting some sleep, I'm feeling a little bit better...

The answer to your question, Smooth as Anything, is that I asked her because I guess I figured, I'm only going to be in high school once, and I should try to enjoy it, and I figured I'd go for it...Whenever we're together we are having a lot of fun, she even says so, but I dont know....anyways thanks.:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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