"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok theres this girl I have a crush on and sent her a message on myspace telling her I have a crush on her buuuut I used a fake account to be anonymous...I tried to explain that Im just kinda nervous to admit it and thats why I didnt reveal myself...she hasnt been on myspace for awhile and hasnt read it yet...was this a mistake?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello3348 said:
ok theres this girl I have a crush on and sent her a message on myspace telling her I have a crush on her buuuut I used a fake account to be anonymous...I tried to explain that Im just kinda nervous to admit it and thats why I didnt reveal myself...she hasnt been on myspace for awhile and hasnt read it yet...was this a mistake?
Yes it was.
 

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Have you not read the dj bible?
 
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