This might be the wrong spot for this, if so, I'm sorry.
Basically, I'm stuck between a rock and a really sharp hard place with this girl and I have no clue what to do, which is ironic becuase all my friends come to me for girl troubles and things usually go pretty damn solid for them using my advice, but I can't help myself for some reason for this one. I'm still in high school, get my license in 2 weeks, turning 16 tomorrow, life is good, confusing as ****, but that's life right?
I really like this girl, but there’s obviously more to it than that.
But here we go:
We had been planning for a while and I thought we were joking about going to Howl-o-scream(some of you may be familiar with this at Busch Gardens in Tampa, Florida throughout the month of October), but we actually did end up going.
I invited a bunch of people to go, but everyone except me and her bailed. I was surprised she wanted to go since her best friend couldn't go with us. But she said she really wanted to go.
So I go by her place before we leave to pick her up, say hi to the parentals and everything, and before we get in the car she just randomly gives me one of her cheer leading pictures (like the good schools get professionally taken) that she said she wanted me to keep (it's currently in my wallet) and on the way up which is about a 2 hour drive we're being very flirty as always and what not; my parents drop us off and away we go.
We get inside get our picture taken, start to off through the first place to get to the next section of the park and before we get to the sign she grabs my hand (we start cupped) which was a very pleasant surprise. She says she's scared and right then I get a phone call from a friend who says he's there so we wait for them, and walk around still holding hands for a while. meet up with my friend and his brother.
Basically, we end up holding hands almost the whole time, half way through the night we literally came about this close | | to kissing, noses were touching, but I pulled away for some stupid ass reason X[
She then makes the transition to laced hand holding after that (and apparently laced and cupped is a huge difference now) through all the haunted houses she had her arms under my arms and around my chest holding hands with me. She started the night saying she was never coming back, but by the end of the night was complaining we went on the last day.
We then leave the park, get home around 2 in the morning, say good bye hug, I go home and sleep. We talk a bit the next day. Today comes around and my friend I met up with at the park told a few people that he didn't know I had a girlfriend. And this is where some problems come up.
and this all happened in the past weekend btw.
Apparently her best friend told me she likes another guy(I found proof myself without having to ask). Should I treat her any different, even though I know she likes someone else, but she's liked him for quite some time apparently? After that night at the park, I thought it was in the bag, but she’s interested in another dude. How do I go about getting her mind off this other guy?
and this all happened in the past weekend btw.
Help/advice/opinion/insight is all greatly appreciated.
Basically, I'm stuck between a rock and a really sharp hard place with this girl and I have no clue what to do, which is ironic becuase all my friends come to me for girl troubles and things usually go pretty damn solid for them using my advice, but I can't help myself for some reason for this one. I'm still in high school, get my license in 2 weeks, turning 16 tomorrow, life is good, confusing as ****, but that's life right?
I really like this girl, but there’s obviously more to it than that.
But here we go:
We had been planning for a while and I thought we were joking about going to Howl-o-scream(some of you may be familiar with this at Busch Gardens in Tampa, Florida throughout the month of October), but we actually did end up going.
I invited a bunch of people to go, but everyone except me and her bailed. I was surprised she wanted to go since her best friend couldn't go with us. But she said she really wanted to go.
So I go by her place before we leave to pick her up, say hi to the parentals and everything, and before we get in the car she just randomly gives me one of her cheer leading pictures (like the good schools get professionally taken) that she said she wanted me to keep (it's currently in my wallet) and on the way up which is about a 2 hour drive we're being very flirty as always and what not; my parents drop us off and away we go.
We get inside get our picture taken, start to off through the first place to get to the next section of the park and before we get to the sign she grabs my hand (we start cupped) which was a very pleasant surprise. She says she's scared and right then I get a phone call from a friend who says he's there so we wait for them, and walk around still holding hands for a while. meet up with my friend and his brother.
Basically, we end up holding hands almost the whole time, half way through the night we literally came about this close | | to kissing, noses were touching, but I pulled away for some stupid ass reason X[
She then makes the transition to laced hand holding after that (and apparently laced and cupped is a huge difference now) through all the haunted houses she had her arms under my arms and around my chest holding hands with me. She started the night saying she was never coming back, but by the end of the night was complaining we went on the last day.
We then leave the park, get home around 2 in the morning, say good bye hug, I go home and sleep. We talk a bit the next day. Today comes around and my friend I met up with at the park told a few people that he didn't know I had a girlfriend. And this is where some problems come up.
and this all happened in the past weekend btw.
Apparently her best friend told me she likes another guy(I found proof myself without having to ask). Should I treat her any different, even though I know she likes someone else, but she's liked him for quite some time apparently? After that night at the park, I thought it was in the bag, but she’s interested in another dude. How do I go about getting her mind off this other guy?
and this all happened in the past weekend btw.
Help/advice/opinion/insight is all greatly appreciated.