Big Ego's

[crossboss]

Hey,

I have a big ego, or at least that is what some people on this forum have said. When I was asking for advice people said I was arrogant, and that is why people are not friendly. How can you, judge yourself, compared to others your arrogance.

I asked some people, and they said was humble. However, this is a white lie. So how can you avoid the white lies.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Understand the difference between self-confidence and egotism.

Self-confidence manifests as friendliness and general affability towards others.

Egotism is arrogance, and arrogance is always founded upon weakness. Egotism is bondage to external influences, it is the persistent worry of what others think of you, and then overcompensating to keep up a facade. Take stock of the people you have known, and you will find that the real winners were generally friendly people. Big egos usually belong to losers who feel the subconscious need to bluff and bull**** others to feel good about themselves. Big egos are as big as a house but thin as glass, and they are entirely subordinated to external influences.

You'll notice that every loser you've ever known was either a "dog with his tail between his legs" or an overcompensating, bluffing fraud.

 

[crossboss]

Thanks

Good name(user name ..)by the way.

 

[Still_Skippin]

having an ego is a good thing. being hella hot is better though.