You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NOpe.. they tell you that to keep males motivated.. and most men feel better believing that there are more omen than men even though everytime they got to a bar club of other pickup place there are 5 men for each womanRandallLambert said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exactly, and it is much easier for them, because 99.9% of the time they KNOW, if they're hot, they won't get rejected, unless the guy is gay. Women have much less to loose(if anything at all) by cold-approaching a guy, than a guy has to loose by cold-approaching a woman. The greater, greater majority of the time, when the guy cold-approaches, he'll get blown off, even with decent/good game. Sure as hell doesn't work that way for hot women though.kingman said:
Real world statistics and research beats your anecdotal conspiracy theory. There are slightly more women in the world. Which is not surprising, seeing as men are given all the dangerous and life threatening position in life: Soldiers, manual labourers, factory workers, miners etc.DonGorgon said:
Yeah probably in africa because of civil wars,in cina because of risks at work or in south america for the same reason of the previous two.CaptainJ said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nah.. there are way more men in most places in america.. but u can believe what ever makes u feel better..CaptainJ said:
In Soviet Russia, women approach you.Alle_Gory said:Not everything is evenly distributed. In some places, there's more women than men!
[ Cue conspiracy theory ]
nah thats you.CaptainJ said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.