Women being the choosers? That is such a bvllsh1t mentality that works against everything Don Juan. A DJ should have the abundance mentality and believe that he is the one choosing, whilst hundreds of girls are falling over each other to get him.
In most cases the woman are "letting you in ore not" after you approach so yes they are doing the choosing. Some guys have high standards , in these rare cases the man are doing the choosing
You say women have so many options, is this really true? Just think about the huge amount of AFCs, average guys and creeps out there (Probably 90% of males). When women want a real man, that will have to siphon through all the sh1t, which greatly lowers their options and it is hard for a girl to find a Don Juan. Ok, maybe you are right in saying they have a lot of options, but about 90% of the those options are worthless crap which no woman would want.
You are saying that 90% of the men are not worth anything. They are still men and could be a potential mate.
Please explain how the woman chooses the man? The man (bear in mind, an actual man, not AFC) finds a girl and chooses to approach her and go out with her. Woman must remain passive the entire time, allowing and waiting for him to initiate, but it is the man with the most power as he leads the attraction process and essentially chooses her from other lower value girls.
I can`t explain this, because it is very vague definition of a real men. And real men are acting differently on their ways and girls are acting differently also. A woman never have to do anything, there are no rules that woman must follow and man must follow.
The woman may reject a few AFCs now and then, but that does not make her a chooser, that just means she's being wise and not settling for low standards. Only the HB10's really have the ability to choose, as they know they are hot and men are gagging for them, yet many HB10s can get quite lonely? Why? No man will go out with them, as they won't choose them, as they are too intimidated and feel they won't be "Chosen" by her as your preferred mentality encourages.
Yes that is to be the chooser. Having high standards is being the chooser ore reason to reject hundreds of men.
Many hot girls do not get approached often and are very desperate for a man to come and choose them, why do you think they spend so much time working on their looks, spending hours getting ready? It's because they are putting themselves up for sale, waiting for a man to come along and choose them.
This is wrong. The main reason is that the woman are getting higher confidence (feel better) because they look better.
Yes women can approach themselves, but this is rare, as it takes a lot of confidence for a woman to do this, and they are still in the position of having to wait for the man to initiate most of the attraction (unless they are really forward, which means they could be desperate for the man, thus adding to his abundance mentality and enforcing his role as the chooser).
It takes a lot of confidence for a man to do this also. So the woman should start doing this more , but I think the woman are getting better at this.
