"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Day Tommoro

jiza101

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ok,
tommoro is the day of judgement.
im just gona go sit with this chick in my maths class and see what shes like, i bet she will be a bit shy.. shes new to the school and she moved here from Queensland (im in vic).. Do you guys recon i should ask for her number, what if she dont have a mobile lol..
Some good ideas to make the experience fun for her and me, like some good jokes and ****, other than that im just gona let it flow and see how it goes :>
But yer some tips would be great thanks, i have never actually spoken to her, only had eye contact here and there, but yer we will see how it goes
Some ideas please boys its all engines go tomoz !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Just relax and do your thang....
 

RaMar

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your definately making this a bigger deal then it really is. Just relax and act natural.
 

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By making such a big deal over this you're only setting yourself up for disappointment. Stay calm, don't over-dramatize...
 
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