Big change lately

[playa99]

I've been killing the gym and been killing work lately i've been snowed out and barely had time to post on here!

Ive not gained much weight but look more muscular and definitely get a lot more looks from women so far... Now going to the gym might not be for everyone.. but the reason why i'm getting more attention is two fold...

1: I look better.. I've gained muscle, lost fat, I'm eating healthier and got better skin. Visually I look more attractive, whilst physical attraction isn't everything, it certainly helps. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I can make myself look as good as I can

2: I feel better.. I'm working hard, going out doing a lot of things, feel comfortable in my own skin, more confident constantly happy.

I'm beginning to think attraction is two fold, how you look and how you feel/act.

To become a Don Juan and be in the upper echelon of men I think its important to have both things boxed off.. to look as good as you can and feel as good as you can to put it simply and only YOU know what that is, no one else but you!

 

[TheException]

Now going to the gym might not be for everyone

The gym NEEDS to be for everyone. If you cant take care of yourself....how can you take care of a woman?

I'm beginning to think attraction is two fold, how you look and how you feel/act.

Its called being congruent^

This is the concept of why i could never get into all those routines/canned material. It gave you the ability to make you look/act attractive but without the mindset and inner strength behind it...your alphaness would collapse like a house of cards. To truly be a Don Juan....you must internalize the mindset first....and the actions will come second nature.

 

[playa99]

I don't think going to the gym is a necessity in life, there are plenty of people who are successful in life who've never lifted a weight in there life.

I think you should be healthy, but it's not a necessity. I'm not saying sloth around all day or be one fat dude, but if your healthy and the gym isn't what your interested in then fair play.

 

[plate's_empty]

I don't think going to the gym is a necessity in life, there are plenty of people who are successful in life who've never lifted a weight in there life.

I think you should be healthy, but it's not a necessity. I'm not saying sloth around all day or be one fat dude, but if your healthy and the gym isn't what your interested in then fair play.

If you're satisfied with your life 100% without going to the gym, then so be it.

But if you're dating 7's and you can't figure out why you're unable to get to the 8 benchmark.....then you might want to try the gym.