"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Big Attraction Thing"

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Old crush of mine came to me yesterday, she broke with her toyfriend 2 months ago. Conversation on, and.... I started to caress her hand , she reacted: "no touch, I know there is this big attraction thing" ---and "Send me an email, but don't be mean to me" - What do I do with this? What should I write if I would send her email? No idea...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's a basket-case. At least right now. I'd keep your distance. That's me, though. You could probably take advantage of her fragile state, but my morals would prevent me from doing so...besides it just wouldn't be fun.
 
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