"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My Girlfriend is walking around the room naked.

I'm watching her, eyeing up her big juicy a** & big tit*

I thought to myself she's my girl so I should be able to look at her naked, but maybe it makes her feel uncomfortable. She might think i'm perving on her

I actually asked her "does it bother you when I have a good look at your boo*s when your walking around naked?"

GF :- ....well....if I'm not aware you're looking then I suppose it is a little pervy

So I don't do it as much now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should have replied "I AM a little pervy :("
 

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Desdinova said:
You're allowing yourself to be ashamed of your manly attraction toward her? Why???
After she confirmed what I thought she might be thinking. I thought it must be pervy.
 

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You've been here for two years and you're still acting like a weak beta.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol is this a joke? Who cares. If she is your girlfriend, you should be able to look when you please. In fact, While shes walking around with her big azz, go ahead and give it a slap.
 

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if she didn't/doesn't want you to look, then she shouldn't walk around naked.

if she doesn't want you to enjoy looking at her are you supposed to look at other girls or be gay?
 

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Point taken :) Thanks. I will start admiring her body again.

It's just it did feel a little pervy.

What got me on to this subject was the third question in a quiz in the book No More Mr Nice Guy.

3. When it comes to your sexual experiences, thoughts or impulses :


a. You are comfortable revealing everything about yourself to your partner

b. You have secrets that you have never shred with anyone

c. Some aspect of your sexuality has caused a crisis in an intimate relationship

d. At some time in your life you have tried to eliminate or limit a problematic behaviour

The author says if the reader answers anything other than "a" then he has sexual shame & fear.

Anyway when I first red that question I thought. ok well sometimes when I'm fu*king my GF in missionary position, what turns me on is thinking about one of her previous lovers fuc*ing her. It also turns me on sometimes thinking about her orbiter (who I stopped her seeing) somehow tricking her into fu*ing her that really turns me on

Obviously I fu*k her normally too like checking out her a** when doing her doggy style.

I don't think it would be a good idea to tell her what I think about whilst fuc*ing her.

Is it just me who has these kinds if thoughts. I think it's normal
 

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This is probably top ten most retarded posts on the planet. Hands down, no contest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rainman4707 said:
Point taken :) Thanks. I will start admiring her body again.

It's just it did feel a little pervy.

What got me on to this subject was the third question in a quiz in the book No More Mr Nice Guy.

3. When it comes to your sexual experiences, thoughts or impulses :


a. You are comfortable revealing everything about yourself to your partner

b. You have secrets that you have never shred with anyone

c. Some aspect of your sexuality has caused a crisis in an intimate relationship

d. At some time in your life you have tried to eliminate or limit a problematic behaviour

The author says if the reader answers anything other than "a" then he has sexual shame & fear.

Anyway when I first red that question I thought. ok well sometimes when I'm fu*king my GF in missionary position, what turns me on is thinking about one of her previous lovers fuc*ing her. It also turns me on sometimes thinking about her orbiter (who I stopped her seeing) somehow tricking her into fu*ing her that really turns me on

Obviously I fu*k her normally too like checking out her a** when doing her doggy style.

I don't think it would be a good idea to tell her what I think about whilst fuc*ing her.

Is it just me who has these kinds if thoughts. I think it's normal


Why would you ever apologize for your masculinity??? NEVER DO THAT...
Your masculinity is the primary reason that she's in bed with you...EMBRACE IT.

As far as the "Perv" notion is concerned, I just think she is just insecure on her part but never apologize for who you are...
 

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In2theGame said:
lol is this a joke? Who cares. If she is your girlfriend, you should be able to look when you please. In fact, While shes walking around with her big azz, go ahead and give it a slap.
THIS... You should've grabbed her politely by the hand (like the true gentleman that you are) gracefully "bend her over" and grope/slap that arse like a caveman until you were satisfied. She will moan and groan like a hor. Problem solved....
 
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