"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrgoodstuff

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I think you guys missed the point about what I was originally talking about. Going after a younger woman is one thing, 90% of the time she wants kids maybe the guy does too but most of the time its her.

The couple that lives in the neighbourhood, I met them years ago they didn't have kids they knew each other for less than a year he was around 43 she was 29 I was 26 at that time. I got the feeling her clock was ticking she was looking for a man, he's a successful business man, she was a couple years into her career. She was a real flirt she thought her sh*t didn't stink she's a daddies girl couldn't do enough for him, she's got some deep rooted body image issues. Fast forward to present day she's become bit of a b*tch he's aged a lot, raising a family, dealing with her. He's got his hands full that's for sure, he's run ragged, walks like the tin man like he's crippled up with arthritis. At almost 60 years old he should be enjoying his life looking forward to retirement. By the time he see's his kids graduation he will be too worn out to enjoy his life, hell if his kids want to go to college or university he will have to work till he's 80

Think of your future before you go screwing it up, he was thinking with the wrong head back in 2001 when he met this woman, she was probably banging his brains out a 42 year old guy tapping a 28 year old woman. She had a smoking body on her, her nipples were perma hard, pushed through her bra, she wasn't blessed with a pretty face thou, as she's aged it hasn't gotten any better. She knew what she wanted and she got it, family, guy that knows how to make money, she's living the upper crust life style she expects, what's he left with? Kids reach 18 years old he's 65 plus she's still young enough to latch on another man closer to her age, and he's left a gibbeled up old man from stress.

When I seen her friend the other day with a guy that is even older than her with their school aged children is was holy fvck, guy definitely in his 60s with a woman that's 45 years old I just shook my head and thought WTF.
She might prefer older men. Some do . But yeah if she don't prefer it better that way it's worse for him . It'll stress him more and age him faster.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She might prefer older men. Some do . But yeah if she don't prefer it better that way it's worse for him . It'll stress him more and age him faster.
Pretty sure she will be sticking with him, she can't afford the life style she wants on her own.
 

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I hit on a 19 year old waitress on friday at a work event, when she told me she had never have a boyfriend, I felt an urge to capture her. She actually rejected me asking for her number and said it was because I was too drunk. I don't believe that. She was flirting back and semi-following me around so I'm guessing it was because I asked her in front of her colleagues. Either that or she thought I was ugly, the stupid lesbian.

There are guys settling down with girls in my peer group looking to buy houses and have kids/get married. I could not think of anything worse as a 29 year old man with a decent job and plates to spin.

I will have the last laugh in 5 years when my hot 24 year old wife is stunting on them fools.
 
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