"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bicep Advice....

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Quick history. Turned 37 December 2006, and decided since I wasn't getting any younger I needed to get in physical shape. I am 6'0", 160 (at the time) with little or no real muscle definition.

My routine since then has been 4-5 miles running every other day with a 2-day break every two weeks. I don't go for speed, but make sure my heart rate is around 140 for at least 30 minutes. I also incorporated a push up routine to enhance upper body definition -- started low, but have worked up to 50 push ups every 4 minutes, 8 sets, for a total of 400. I do those 5 days/week and take the weekend off.

After 10 months, I am 150lbs., and have generated a lean, defined chest area. My problem lies with my triceps. They are huge. Not by body builder standards, but with my frame. I have no extra time nor money to do a machine or go to a gym, but I need to build up my biceps so they are proportional to my tri's. Is buying a bar with weights and doing curls my only option? And should I cut out my push-up routine all together?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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arms do not grow unless the whole body grows. so in other words, no
 

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Is there a park where you jog?
Sometimes some public parks have pull up bars.
Try incoporating pull ups/chin ups in your routine.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
 

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SinJester said:
Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
try it and see.

for the body to create new tissue there must be a sufficient demand. doing purely bicep work will not create enough of a demand, otherwise the bicep brigade would have huge arms and very little else
 

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SinJester said:
Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
Yep you would. Not MASSIVE increases, but a noticeable gain, you certainly would. You only have to look at the gym for evidence of that, the people who do curl after curl - big arms. Just not as big as the guy who curls, squats, benches and deadlifts and has a correct diet.
 

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I'm not trying it NOW Alex. I'm doing what you and the other guys told me to do.

Did it before, sure I seen a little bit of an increase.

Guess Cuzza is right?
 

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if you are 130 with 11" arms you'll see an increase just like you'd see a chest/tri increase if you just did pushups.

but if you're trying to get 16-20" arms forget it

and for the record I have yet to see a guy who ONLY does curls have big arms. I've seen a few Mr Upper Bodies (tiny legs, big chest and arms) but they didn't just do curls, they did other stuff too (bench and db rows being favourites) and lifted reasonable weights

cuzza, show me one guy who ONLY does curls with big arms
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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