"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bicep Advice....

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Quick history. Turned 37 December 2006, and decided since I wasn't getting any younger I needed to get in physical shape. I am 6'0", 160 (at the time) with little or no real muscle definition.

My routine since then has been 4-5 miles running every other day with a 2-day break every two weeks. I don't go for speed, but make sure my heart rate is around 140 for at least 30 minutes. I also incorporated a push up routine to enhance upper body definition -- started low, but have worked up to 50 push ups every 4 minutes, 8 sets, for a total of 400. I do those 5 days/week and take the weekend off.

After 10 months, I am 150lbs., and have generated a lean, defined chest area. My problem lies with my triceps. They are huge. Not by body builder standards, but with my frame. I have no extra time nor money to do a machine or go to a gym, but I need to build up my biceps so they are proportional to my tri's. Is buying a bar with weights and doing curls my only option? And should I cut out my push-up routine all together?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warboss Alex

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arms do not grow unless the whole body grows. so in other words, no
 

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Is there a park where you jog?
Sometimes some public parks have pull up bars.
Try incoporating pull ups/chin ups in your routine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
 

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SinJester said:
Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
try it and see.

for the body to create new tissue there must be a sufficient demand. doing purely bicep work will not create enough of a demand, otherwise the bicep brigade would have huge arms and very little else
 

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SinJester said:
Alex, so if you only do bicep curls and do them heavy and proper, raising the weight when you can, you can't make them bigger? Even if you eat a lot + protein.

Surely you would see SOME increase?
Yep you would. Not MASSIVE increases, but a noticeable gain, you certainly would. You only have to look at the gym for evidence of that, the people who do curl after curl - big arms. Just not as big as the guy who curls, squats, benches and deadlifts and has a correct diet.
 

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I'm not trying it NOW Alex. I'm doing what you and the other guys told me to do.

Did it before, sure I seen a little bit of an increase.

Guess Cuzza is right?
 

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if you are 130 with 11" arms you'll see an increase just like you'd see a chest/tri increase if you just did pushups.

but if you're trying to get 16-20" arms forget it

and for the record I have yet to see a guy who ONLY does curls have big arms. I've seen a few Mr Upper Bodies (tiny legs, big chest and arms) but they didn't just do curls, they did other stuff too (bench and db rows being favourites) and lifted reasonable weights

cuzza, show me one guy who ONLY does curls with big arms
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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