"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Biblical Game

Julius_Seizeher

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No, this thread will not include biblical quotes of how to pick up women.

Instead, it offers food for thought for the man who seeks earnestly to improve his condition in life.

It is common to wonder why some men get all the women, why some men get all the money. The famous 80/20 Rule, "the rich get richer", etc.

There is a biblical quote with which you must become familiar, because whether you have known it or not, it has largely dictated the course of your life.

"For unto every one that hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance: but from him that hath not, even that which he hath shall be taken away"

This metaphysical law simply illustrates the truth that, whatever you have, you will acquire more of it.

When you have women, you get more women.

When you have money, you are able to create more money, as opportunities fall in your lap and you are able to invest wisely.

Now, surely we can find quantifiable reasons for why these things occur. When you have a woman, you are indifferent and affable towards the rest, which turns them on to you. When you have money, you can invest it in stocks or real estate or a business, and get even more money.

Likewise, if you have failure, defeat, lack of confidence, and all things miserable, you have these things in yet greater abundance.

To him that hath shall be given!

So take heart, you who find yourselves in the ditch of life. The early victories are always the hardest fought and most suffered for, but once you have them, you are already on your way towards bigger and better things. The defeats and failures we endure are in truth great assets that shape our characters and make us men.

So even if you currently endure defeat, don't let it get you down. Guard your inner beliefs from the onslaught of the physical world. Whatever you believe is what you will eventually become. And whatever you have, you will have more of it in the future.

So make sure that what you "have" is the right stuff!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was sceptical when I saw the title of this tip, but it's absolutely spot on.

People impose way too many limits on their lives, especially with women, thinking they're doing the right thing, but it only comes back against you. I've learned this the hard way.
 

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THis is very true. Once you have one or two steady girls...they don't even have to be "9s", they can be like, "6s"...women seem to be able to sense that and will gravitate to it. I've either been "feast or famine" with women...either I've got 2 or 3 in rotation and a bunch of girls floating in and out, or I'm completely "dry".

A lot of it is just inertia...if you get out of the habit of thinking and acting in "Don Juan" ways, it's hard to get there again, but once you're there, it's just natural.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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