ToP DoN
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Personally i dont give a fvck if they are on here or not...but i just hope what they add isnt stupid or useless..
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You mean like this post? Frankly sir, from the way you write you sound like an obnoxious macho jerk, and only the most insecure screwed-up women would find that attractive.Originally posted by ToP DoN
Personally i dont give a fvck if they are on here or not...but i just hope what they add isnt stupid or useless..
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There are lounges here. but all bars are dirty. I've been in the City many of times. and the city itself is dirty.Originally posted by ToP DoN
what i dont get about sacramento is...why isnt thre any lounges ....its all dirty bars or fufu bars...or some ghetto shiet....
Point well taken Slashco. And here is a copy of a recent post:Originally posted by Slashco
You mean Player Supreme, the guy who got into a 9+ page flame war/d!ck measuring contest with two other knuckle-draggers until the thread was locked? Yep, fine example there.
I'm not trying to start a flame war, just stating what I honestly think of you from the way you talk. You seem to despise women and have an oversized ego. If a woman saw this thread, how do you think she'd see you? Remember, respect comes when you treat others with respect.
You have much to learn. Your attitude will attract low self esteem women who turn out to be very disappointing as time goes on. You wouldn't be able to handle a smart, quality woman. At only 25 that's not what you're looking for right now. However, in another 5 years you are not going to be happy with low quality women. It's not wise to adopt the mindset you have right now because once you have it, it's very difficult to lose. And be forewarned...if you haven't lost that attitude by the time you hit 30 you're going to be one lonely man. Those foolish young girls who might like you now won't like you as much when you get older and the more mature women don't give arseholes the time of day...not if they're worth having anyhow.Originally posted by ToP DoN
didnt have time earlier....im just saying that ...really this is a board for real men to talk about how to treat you biatches the way you need to be treated....i really dont want to read somethng here that says you need a sensitive, caring, man...who cries and shiet....
we get enough of that shiet from the media....my best relationships have been when i was an azzhole....it still dumbfounds me how biatches really need to be treated...they dont even know what they need...
so if you have anything to say on here biatches ...make sure youre being honest...like you want a guy who takes control...whose sure of himself...who plans things....whose got a fvckin life....whose active....whose confident....whose got other girls that want him....
really who wants an ugly girl....no one i presume...so you ugly girls ...at least give up the putang cause frankly you aint gonna get di ck that often in your life...unless some poor sap has a fetish for ugly girls....another thing....i saw a post about FEET....what the fvck is that.....come on azzhole...i dont need to read nasty shiet like that....if anything you should like having your feet sucked....fvckin queer bait...stop putting feet on a pedastool...damn that shiet is wrong on so many levels...
more to add later....
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I am responding to the first paragraph slashco..Originally posted by Slashco
Actually, the second paragraph in my post was directed at ToP DoN. Not everything is about you, champ.![]()
Well said.Originally posted by E-Z Rider
Stop being an asshat.