Bi-sexual men and the hordes of hot women they seem to attract

[edger]

Hanging out within the "alternative scene" here in NYC(mainly Brooklyn and Manhattan), I've noticed many women(particularly EMO/Indie Rock chicks) seem to lust for these guys. A little background on me, I'm far from an EMO/Indie Rocker, I'm part of the Extreme Metal scene here..but I frequent a lot of these places for the women.

Point of this post is we preach so much how women want the "emasculated" guy in touch with his "manhood"..but the bi-sexual guy is the antithesis of this. I'll observe in these clubs whenever I go how these hotties are all over these guy's d*cks. These dudes will literally make out with each other and dance like the flaming homos that they are(don't mean that in a derogatory way by the way), yet will still have these b*tches craving to f*ck their brains out at the end of the night.

I mean yeah, some of the best players go undetected..but I can't see how this would be the case here, seeing how these guys are on the dancefloor dancing away like flaming homos and making out with each other. And I'm not sure if I'd be so quick to say either that these women go for these guys because they're "f*cked up in the head". Usually women who are f*cked up in this regard compose a small percentage. And don't forget, this is a large portion of women I am talking about...the EMO/Indie Rock scene is a very large scene this decade, especially here in the NYC area. And by the way, I mean no disrespect to the EMO/Indie Rock scene or bi-sexuals in any way. I am cool with all scenes, sexual orientations, etc.

 

[joekerr31]

women love gay/bi men because

1) they act like women
2) they are 100% completely non threatening
3) they share the victim mentality towards life that women do
4) they totally reinforce how women perceive and handle life (ie. emotion based)

really, women don't get a lot of praise from straight men. outside of praising them for their looks, we tend to diminish how they behave as being overly emotional, irrational, unreliable during times of difficulty, manipulative, etc.

but the gay/bi male doesn't look down on them for these things, but instead snaps their fingers and pronounces "You go girl!"

women LOVE having this 'male' precense that acts like them and reinforces their value as is. so hey, if they can get some d*ck from them also, all the better.

but at the end of they day, remember, these gay/bi men are women in male bodies. and women know this also. which is why, ultimately, a straight woman is looking for a straight man.

 

[jophil28]

Tying to make sense of some women's behavior ? Why bother ?
You ever tried grappling with an armful of smoke ?
Just go get a SANE one who behaves in ways that please YOU. (may take a while ! )

 

[Nighthawk]

Hmm, how often are these men actually 'making out' with each other? As opposed to seemingly-gay-but-really-just-playing-with-the-boundaries behaviour like wearing eye-liner or dancing with each other?

Any sort of sexual flirting, even between two hetero men in eye-liner, is still sexual which is more than most 'straight' guys can manage. It's also a tease - look women, we don't need you. Sexy. Not boring. If they really are gay? Hmm, maybe they can be cured, what a challenge!

There is a great song by King Missile, Gay/Not Gay. Read the lyrics

I saw an episode of The Jerry Springer Show, and the topic was "Transvestites and the Men Who Love Them." And the guy was on with his "girlfriend," and he was saying "To me, this is a beautiful woman. She's got a perfect body, beautiful blonde hair, everything. I love her, and I love making love to her. Now I ask you, does that make me gay?" Most of the audience thought so, and so did I. But it got me thinking about what is and isn't gay.


Discussing sex with a guy is gay. Discussing sex with a women is straight. Even telling a woman "Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to suck a cock," is straight.


Sports are gay, especially contact sports, unless you're the only guy on both teams, in which case it's straight.


Gyms are always gay, because afterwards, in the locker room, you're showering with guys, and that is gay.


Watching pornography alone is neutral, like eating a sandwich. It is neither straight nor gay. Watching pornos with one or more other guys in the room, no matter how many other women are also in the room, is gay. Watching porn, even gay porn, with one or more other women only is staright.


Here's an interesting one: Kissing a gay guy on the cheek, or letting him kiss you on the cheek is neutral, as long as the guy is out of the closet. Hugging and/or kissing a straight guy is gay.


See, look, I know I'm homophobic, but not about gay guys. They don't bother me at all. It's straight guys who don't know their gay... they fuck my shit right up.


Like a guy calls me up and says, "A bunch of us guys are gonna sit around in our underwear and watch the football game and drink beer and eat chips and, you know, maybe wrestle with each other, just us guys. You wanna come over?" And I'm like, "No."


Ok, you got a guy sucking your cock, even if he's dressed like a beautiful woman, even if he's got the best breast implants youv'e ever seen, even if you're saying to him "Suck it, bitch, I know you like it, you slut, you whore!" that's gay.


Conversely, if a woman straps on a dildo, and you're dressed like a woman, and you're sucking her cock, and she's saying, "You like it, don't you? You like sucking my cock you little fucking faggot," and then she rolls you over and ****s you in the ass and says "You love it you little pussy boy! You love getting fucked in the ass. I'll bet you wish I was a man! I'll bet you wish this was a real cock, you fucking faggot!" and you're getting off on this like you've never gotten off before, that's still straight.


But then, if you go off to the bar, and discuss this, or any other sexual experience with guys, that's gay.


Here's the most interesting one. Sucking a guys cock can, under certain rare cirumstances, be straight. Let's say you've gotten into a betting game with a woman, and the bet is that whoever loses has to be the other's sex slave for an entire night... you know, the kind of stuff that happens in Penthouse Forum all the time. And you lose, and the woman makes you have sex with another guy. That's not gay. I don't know exactly why, but it isn't.

A lot of women dig men in make-up. It turns them on to see men aware of their feminine side, whether it's emo, goth, hair metal, new romantic - all playing with gender stereotypes but generally a front for heterosexual peackocking. 'Real' gays hit the gym and are very unlikely to be wearing make-up unless they're a tranny.

 

[Bizzaro]

Gay guys wont have any interest in women.


I think if a group of women have become accustomed to a gay guy being arround them, wouldn't it be strange if he made any moves on them? Thats like going against his 'orientation'.

 

[lookyoung]

women love gay/bi men because

1) they act like women
2) they are 100% completely non threatening
3) they share the victim mentality towards life that women do
4) they totally reinforce how women perceive and handle life (ie. emotion based)

really, women don't get a lot of praise from straight men. outside of praising them for their looks, we tend to diminish how they behave as being overly emotional, irrational, unreliable during times of difficulty, manipulative, etc.

but the gay/bi male doesn't look down on them for these things, but instead snaps their fingers and pronounces "You go girl!"

women LOVE having this 'male' precense that acts like them and reinforces their value as is. so hey, if they can get some d*ck from them also, all the better.

but at the end of they day, remember, these gay/bi men are women in male bodies. and women know this also. which is why, ultimately, a straight woman is looking for a straight man.

This is the best tip on this thread by far. Why do you think mystery and style are able to open up sets and have descent convos with them. They play the role of the homosexual or bisexual. This is a great role to play if you want to dance with girls and conversate with them.

Guys will not get laid playing the Mystery-style role. Its all an illusion.

 

[MatureDJ]

It's a case of attention horring. Gay men are safe. Hetero men want to impregnate women (or at least do the activity that would lead to that.) And even if they would have sex with them (doubtful), to these women, it's not really sex - just another woman with a dildo.

I'm sure that all these women are really screwed up in the head.