Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BF Raped Her

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So I go to take off my pants after fingering her for a while after i pull her pants down and she goes nuts and finally says her bf raped her. I've known her about a week and half and got thus far. I'm thinking sex next time. Since I'm two years older should I make her sign a consent form? What's good?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eyewitness account by Kobe Bryant. Sure-fire proof of consent.
 

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why would you need her written consent if she never did anything about her last bf? Get her tested for stds, maybe?
 

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She's lying. How can a BF rape? If it were true, then she'd be one fcuked up individual... you wouldn't have made it this far so soon and she would've turned lezzie
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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By forcing her to have sex/sexual acts that aren't consensual...
I think he was getting at the fact that she shouldn't have given him the label "boyfriend" if he was that despicable. The situation does sound a little unrealistic, or else she's just an idiot.
 
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