Also with the bad manners attitude, do you or your friends get attracted to bad boys even though you know they are losers? This is going to the attraction is not a choice mantra. I got the most girls when I was broke, smoking weed, doing drugs, and partying. Even got the "classy" girls. Now it hurt me in the long run because i actually did become a loser (building myself back up and doing NONE of that bull****).For myself I can tell you I have that kind of awareness. But I’m not sure all women do, consciously.
I think women naturally thin slice and read behavioral cues with greater accuracy than men as a general rule (there are exceptions to this, certainly). That is the essence of ‘womens’ intuition’ and I think that is a behavioral/biological adaptation that is hard wired (some women are more in tune with this instinct than others in today’s distractingly busy world).
For me I either have physical attraction for a man or I don’t. It doesn’t develop over time. But not all women have a desire profile like mine. For me if Im not attracted there’s no growing the attraction. Other women can develop attraction on criteria that they value which may not place physical appearance at the top of the list.
However I can get turned off or lose attraction for a physically attractive man even if I was initially keen.
Turn offs include lack of intelligence, self destructive behaviors (drugs, too much booze), poor social calibration (bad manners, offensiveness to others), overly dogmatic beliefs, etc. Things you can’t see or know on sight.
So consider that women CAN be aware, therefore the woman you are interacting with might realize. Or she might not (consciously).
I assure you the subconscious ALWAYS knows...which may translate as a feeling of discomfort rather than a conscious awareness.