I want to add to this and put some science behind it, because I agree with this a lot, and you see a lot of guys in different threads who are always thinking negatively and thinking about worst case scenarios instead of staying positive withinBy using this flow: How you think + how you do things = results.
It will then be easier to follow what I'm trying to convey.
As can be seen in numerous threads, there's an over abundance of "how to do things", telling men to act such and such to get a result.
But then they mostly fail in the.....end.
And its because of "how you think" is not emphasised on.
Your brain doesn't know the difference between what you experience in reality, and what you imagine. It is inside of your head, it's not experiencing the outside world like you are. It is fed information from your senses and thoughts. So if you are imagining in your mind what can go wrong and thinking about all of these negative outcomes that can happen or that you expect to happen, your brain experiences negative trauma from it, regardless of whether it's really being experienced
If those negative thoughts actually come to fruition, now you are experiencing double negative trauma. Now this is where how you think effects what you do. When you remain positive with your thoughts, and you keep imagining positive results and success in your life, your brain will work to help you make decisions in real life that will lead you to those goals.
When you think this way, and experience a negative result, your brain, instead of experiencing double negative trauma, will keep working to help you make decisions so that you move past that and get to the results you want