1) He usually uses tactics to keep women glued to him. The woman might want something from him, like children, marriage, or living together, and he plays the game by pretending to be uninterested in these requests (which he actually does want), and makes her do all the work to get them.
This carries over into his daily life, even in the smallest things.
(Just for example, she texts her, "It's late, come to dinner," and he doesn't respond even after seeing the message, knowing it will worry her, even though he's actually driving home.)
As mentioned, he uses tactics, and sees outburst and emotional high and lows as a reason to use even more tactics "to win the game," so he won't walk away, even when boundaries are crossed, but rather sees those as challenges.
2) This man, when his woman makes requests, discusses them and follows through.
If the woman asks for children, he might ask if they're currently financially equipped to have one, but then he goes ahead with it.
If the woman asks for something else in the relationship, he accepts or disagrees, but he gets it done.
He doesn't use tactics and if he's disrespected, he points it out, sets a limit, and if it's crossed, he'll walk away.
He guide, in the sense that his focus in life isn't on tactics or the game, but rather on having a direction, goals, and wanting to achieve them, and he's clear about this; he hides nothing.
This carries over into his daily life, even in the smallest things.
(Just for example, she texts her, "It's late, come to dinner," and he doesn't respond even after seeing the message, knowing it will worry her, even though he's actually driving home.)
As mentioned, he uses tactics, and sees outburst and emotional high and lows as a reason to use even more tactics "to win the game," so he won't walk away, even when boundaries are crossed, but rather sees those as challenges.
2) This man, when his woman makes requests, discusses them and follows through.
If the woman asks for children, he might ask if they're currently financially equipped to have one, but then he goes ahead with it.
If the woman asks for something else in the relationship, he accepts or disagrees, but he gets it done.
He doesn't use tactics and if he's disrespected, he points it out, sets a limit, and if it's crossed, he'll walk away.
He guide, in the sense that his focus in life isn't on tactics or the game, but rather on having a direction, goals, and wanting to achieve them, and he's clear about this; he hides nothing.