"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WOW1826

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Hey, about two months ago smalls fit me exactly the way i wanted them
(the bottom was half an inch under the belt). Now smalls are a little bit too small and I had to mov e up to a medium. But the medium shirts are too big. Anybody have any help for me? HJad this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How old are you? If you have become taller, then you just have to wait until you grow another inch or so and the mediums will fit. If it's a matter of bulking or getting fatter, the solution is to either lose the fat and get back to a small, or bulding some muscles so that medium fits you as you like.
 

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Well it's a little bit of both, I'm 15. I need to get taller and I probably will but I'm also not ripped enough to fill a medium. That;s no problem but the hieght....
 

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WOW1826 said:
Well it's a little bit of both, I'm 15. I need to get taller and I probably will but I'm also not ripped enough to fill a medium. That;s no problem but the hieght....
?! You said that the medium was too large and now you say that you should be more ripped? If you were more ripped, the shirt would be even larger than now, man. I think you should bulk up a bit
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting Ripped = Smaller. Less bodyfat. I would just find shirts that shrink, buy them in medium, and set the dryer on as long as you can to shrink them down.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Getting Ripped = Smaller. Less bodyfat. I would just find shirts that shrink, buy them in medium, and set the dryer on as long as you can to shrink them down.
thanks bro, and when i meant get ripped i meant mass up. My bud told me I should wash it with dry detergent, the grainy stuff. W/e I'll see what happens.

btw skilla I saw that style thread and your style's pimpin' those *****es don't know :up:
 

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haha thanks bro.
 

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problem solved in two words: Long Shirts. A long small is perfect.
 
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