"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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better to get flaked on

skeeloo

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Or rather flaking shouldnt be an issue to you.

ONE thing i have realized is that you cant avoid flaking from women or girls.women will always flake on you. no matter what no matter how much you have improved. no level or amount of experience will help you judge a flake from the get go. so just learn to deal with it. you have to appraoch or improve your self to get appraoched. thing is you have to get flaked on to know how to move on an dnot waste your time.

you guys hating on women for flaking on you are in denial. you'll forever strife to be perfect but will never get there until you realize that women are women and flking is part of them. it like some fools are trying to reach that perfect level which dosnt exist. if you get flaked on its better to stop analysing what happend and move on. sure bet is to delete her number after you get flaked on and never memorise a womans number for the first time or else it will hunt you.
revenge on a women for flaking on you means you are weak emotionally. some guy try to get back at women for flaking on them, and that is silly we aint kids and should learn not to waste our time on petty mind games. ususally realmen are prompt and direct life lessons has taught them to be direct and quick without time wasting.(if a women flakes you move on tto the next without any bitterness) guys fall in love faster than women. you always see the next girl as the one. its better to view all girls as potential sex buddy at first and not get emotional attached.
you cant always know when a girl will flake on you. only thing we can do is next them once we get flaked on being afraid of being flaked on will make you not approach. none of us are perfect. we should all work on our inner strenght and sense of self dependance(when we get flaked on its not always our fault).you should know when yo call it off. you all think you can get to some level were you know when a girl is a flake or not? no, it impossibe.

no matter the amount of signs or intrest she gives, she could still flake on you for some reason or another. which shouldnt be our concern anyway. only way you can avoid a flaking woman is to get flaked on by her first and move on so i think working on your inner strength should be your goal.

what i mean is learning how to move on quickly. even in some cases i have gievn women 2 chance's and if i get flaked on the second time i call it off. it should be as simple as that. many of you are scared of being flaked on for fear of the fact that you think you were unacttractive or not ready yet. well thats bull ****. dont know how else to put this but i hope some of you get what im saying.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lurker

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thats true,
thats what matters really. focusing on improving our inner confident self and be able to take knock backs not just from women but from life itself. too many men are scared of failure. very true.
i also like the part about men falling in love too fast. it true we men fall in love so fast. i think when it comes to relationship btwn men and women many women are stronger emotionally. look at the past greatmen of the pasts and how women played on thier emotions.
and its true about not remebering a girls number. i used to do that when i was 20. i will memorize(spelling) numbers so i wouldnt loose them, i was scared of letting go of the one woman i managed to sum up the courage to chat up it was pathetic too bad many men are still in this same circle. scred of failure with women and flaking attitudes the stronger you are insid the more you ignore games women play. outta confidence should be improved as well as inner confidence so take note.
3 stars.
 
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