Better to be divorced man with kids or never married?

[SteveBlaine]

This is a pick up artist site---

I'm 50 divorced with kids, yea I have money, but I am far from rich. I never have problems getting dates, and getting women interested. Like you I work out a lot, which helps, but I think you get that it's probably the places you are going that is the problem.

By the time you hit your mid-30s, women stop giving you extra-credit for 'potential', and start grading you on who you are. So you are right, past 40 it really isn't a game anymore it is who you REALLY are. If you really don't have anything going in life then yea... you are going to have problems. Here is how I meet women:

Yoga: I'm shocked that more men do not take this up. Especially someone like you, just starting out, you have built in rapport and need 'help'. The studio I practice at has get togethers first Friday of every month. Always fun.
Chamber of Commerce Networking Events: Seriously, start a business. What ever it is that you want to do, it can even be a part time thing. SBA has free counseling and they can get you started. Being an entrepreneur is interesting, and you have built in rapport with chicks at the network events.
Get involved with charities: I'm on the board of three, and there is often plenty of opportunities to meet women.

I also do wine tasting and anything else that looks remotely interesting. My source of interesting stuff to do is Facebook under local 'events' where I live there is seldom NOTHING going on. If you are in a place with ZERO happening, and you are not happy, then go ahead and move.... you don't have any reason to stay where you are.

Good stuff Ranger Mike. The Chamber and Commerce, wine tastings, yoga and charities are good places to meet ladies. I will check into it.

I had awesome dating experiences in Florida with more available attractive women. I strongly believe you have to go where the fish are biting. Luckily, my job allows me to move anywhere. Back to Florida.

 

[ubercat]

Mate, I m 50 divorced but y the heck would I tell that to any chick. Some money but not rich and not pretty. Never had a year when I didn't have a steady g/f or a few random chicks or both. Ok I don't know about Ohio however I m very sceptical about dudes saying it's their location. IMO it's your hunting grounds and your game. To b honest I don't know how guys have trouble finding women. They re everywhere and they just keep turning up.

 

[_sideways_]

It's him getting older and his brain is aging as well.
You stop being imaginatively fun.
Bored people are boring people.

Unless he's just venting....that's fine.
But not every club bar, super market, library, coffee shop, etc is going to have 2-3 of females you particularly like.

Heres my point....

Make the most of the land whales in your area and have fun.
Get free meals, clothes, etc. While you're planning your move to better grounds.


But don't complain. Be proactive.

If tomorrow you only had one foot...would you continue on your happy quest?
Sure it sucks. But land whales give amazing head.
It's not like women are the only thing to make you happy.

Big Neil pays them to not bring drama to the table...that's how I see that situation.
Also, they ain't breaking nobody's necks. But he likes them. Great.

Jk

 

[ubercat]

Heheh. I find chubby girls r more up for Ass fuks too. I agree as long as it gets you hard have fun. Some days it's Macca's it can't be filet mignon all the time.

And seriously dude who the f*** needs imagination when you've got the whole of so suave at the mercy of your mouse. Become one with the search function. You want date or venue ideas there's hundreds here. You go to the mall a lot theres entire threads on how to pick up at the mall. Into Asian girls check out my threads on how to catch and maintain them. It's an endless buffet here how could you possibly be short of ideas. Tell if you really need a shake up checkout Bible belts threads on how to pull kinky slvts off Craigslist and fetlife

 

[FwoGiZ]

Be VERY careful if you start being nice to chubbies. The problem with doing that is once you get a hot high quality women, you might get severe oneitis!

 

[ubercat]

Maybe I am behind the times. Perhaps fvcking a chub in the azz is the modern version of being nice. Anyway I am quite safe I'm a rice pie specialist. So my biggest issue is finding one that's actually got tits and azz.