SteveBlaine
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 25, 2016
- Messages
- 94
- Reaction score
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- Age
- 53
I am approaching 50 and never married, no kids, and no mortgage.
Although I once had a mortgage and discovered home ownership was overrated. (Sold property)
I had a long-term girlfriend and discovered that was overrated too.(Broke up)
I like kids, but never found a woman I wanted to have kids with.(no right woman)
Ironically, in my 20's, 30's, 40's I never had problems getting dates. Awesome dating life.
Nowadays so many women dismiss me. Some say why never married? Of course you are labeled a weirdo at a certain age. I go to the bars to have fun but the girls are so young that I don't even approach them. All the old women, have kids, let themselves go, and kind of depress me.
I work out everyday for 2 hours in the gym, pound the weights, run, eat clean and stay fit. I expect a woman to do the same or at least make an effort.
I am thinking of deleting my Facebook account because I don't like to be labeled while all my friends are married. Should 50 something yr old men just disappear?
My self esteem is good and my confidence is high---but feel out of place. Maybe its just Ohio. Florida and California have more older singles. In NYC everyone is welcome. lol
So my question is ..are men with kids who are divorced better catches than single men who never married?
Although I once had a mortgage and discovered home ownership was overrated. (Sold property)
I had a long-term girlfriend and discovered that was overrated too.(Broke up)
I like kids, but never found a woman I wanted to have kids with.(no right woman)
Ironically, in my 20's, 30's, 40's I never had problems getting dates. Awesome dating life.
Nowadays so many women dismiss me. Some say why never married? Of course you are labeled a weirdo at a certain age. I go to the bars to have fun but the girls are so young that I don't even approach them. All the old women, have kids, let themselves go, and kind of depress me.
I work out everyday for 2 hours in the gym, pound the weights, run, eat clean and stay fit. I expect a woman to do the same or at least make an effort.
I am thinking of deleting my Facebook account because I don't like to be labeled while all my friends are married. Should 50 something yr old men just disappear?
My self esteem is good and my confidence is high---but feel out of place. Maybe its just Ohio. Florida and California have more older singles. In NYC everyone is welcome. lol
So my question is ..are men with kids who are divorced better catches than single men who never married?