"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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honeyshark

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Tomatoes said:
...Other things to try is things like wearing 2 condoms (1 "Durex performa" will keep you going for longer anyway and they are made for endurance) or having a wannk before you go out.
Sarge On!
Wearing two condoms at once is probably not advisable as they can rub against one another, increasing the chance of breakage.

Online sources
http://www.health.arizona.edu/health_topics/sexual_health/usingtwocondoms.htm
http://www.avert.org/teencondoms.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex_faqs20.htm
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You know, I think ObieJuan was asking how to keep his erection up longer, instead of making him stop c*mming. If I read correctly, what he's trying to say is he can't stay erect long enough to finish the job, especially when he's thinking of other things.

I used to have the same problem. May I suggest you cut back on the masturbation? One month of that would probably restore your horniness. Though then, you'd probably be back asking how to last longer, c*m-wise!
 

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