"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Beta Words to Ban from your vocabulary!!!!!

Jariel

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zekko said:
Oops, I just admitted I don't know something, I guess I must be a Beta.
Oops, I just said "I guess".
Oh, well...

haha. You make a good point though. When you get to the point of worrying about words you should and should not say, you're thinking way too much.

A big turning point for me in terms of my confidence, success with women and general social interactions was to stop caring so much. If a woman thinks I sound like a beta male because of the way I speak, she's too fussy and too much hard work...time to next her and move on to another woman.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PDubb75

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zekko said:
I don't know, I don't really see how most of these are going to make you be perceived as weak.
It's not so much that the words or phrases themselves are weak, or will make you appear weak. It has more to do with the greater chance of these listed words being used in a context that gives a vibe of uncertainty, nervousness, lack of confidence, etc.
 

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I agree these phrases make one weak.

Ever seen the miniseries "Rome" on HBO or Showtime or whatever it was on? Two chicks I recently dated are/were in love with the character of Marc Antony. Watch the series and tell me if he was the type to use any of those words.
 
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