"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JohnyTheArrow

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Its SO CLASSIC I had to post it , I encourage you guys go on internet and read what women said when they are anonymous, that's the red pill truth you can't deny as it comes straight from their soul.What most men can't grasp is : woman can be with because of 100000 ... reasons , it doesnt have to be love or desire, you may be seen as 'perfect father' or 'loving to death' (aka sacrifice tool).It doesnt mean women are evil - as you see the chick below quite doesnt understand why she is attracted to the alpha lover and not current beta, it only means women are women,they know nothing about red pill, beta, alpha ... its all natural to them.

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/fantasizing-about-an-ex-lover/#ixzz3XvevxgPA
I created this account so I could post incognito because I’m a little embarrassed and ashamed to post this.

My fiance and I have been together for almost five years and will be getting married this coming summer. I could not ask for a better life partner – he is smart, driven, kind, generous, and loves me to death. We can talk for hours and hours about anything and I know we will always be able to. He’ll make a wonderful father. In short, we love each other very much.

However, I’ve recently started having intense, all-consuming thoughts about an old lover. I won’t say ex boyfriend because he was never really my boyfriend. I studied in France for awhile in college and met this guy…let’s call him J. For me, I was smitten at first sight. He was physically everything I had ever wanted in a man. There was a deep attraction. We went out on a few proper dates, but everytime I wouldn’t hear from him for weeks afterward. When I tried to contact him he was responsive, but he never took the initiative or else made excuses that he was busy, etc.


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMonkeyKing

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OP, that's more a story of a superior alpha, or the other guy simply wasn't into her. The fiance doesn't sound particularly beta....

THIS guy on the other hand.... http://wwd.com/eye/parties/natalia-vodianova-hosts-gala-dinner-at-londons-coliseum-10114271/

....sticks by an average-looking (I'd say a 6 on a good day, 7 on a really good day) model while she peddles 'kisses on the cheek' for £500 a pop, all in the name of charity. Most people do a fun run.

Now THAT's beta.
 
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